Several decades ago, at the very time that I (a teenager eager to please authority figures) was receiving my first privileges in the Cong, one of my family members divorced their JW spouse, moved to another city, became inactive, and started "dating" a worldly co-worker. Over a period of months, it started becoming obvious to the family that there was more than "dating" going on, and word finally got around to the Cong Servant. He started snooping around and questioning all the family, but noone would "rat out" the relative._______
Finally, the CS questioned me (a minor) in front of my parents (who had already refused to give the CS the evidence he needed), and I spilled the beans._______
Later, after the DF'ing occurred, the family slipped around and only pretended to shun the DF'ed, that is, ALL EXCEPT FOR ME, who obeyed the rules completely._________
The DF'ed family member was eventually reinstated, and has spent the remainder of their life as a slave to the WTS trying to erase that backsliding period.______
I never again have had the close relationship that I once had with that person, but even now they refuse to "rat me out" for "apostasy", rationalizing that I am only temporarily "stumbled" and will one day return._______
As for the rest of the JW family who refused to rat out this person, and then refused to shun them after the DF'ing, they all are still "loyal" JWs.________
Does anyone else see something wrong with this picture?