Highlander - I noticed the same thing you did regarding the elder and his "wife's daughter" - It shows that there was "a lot of love going on there". My husband has never said "those are my wife's sons" (he is their stepdad) He says "those are our sons". I feel sorry for the wife's daughter - if he refered to her this way can you imagine how she must have felt growing up with him?
I agree with Yesidid, there must be a lot of young ones leaving (thank God!) for this to be an issue.
(Pg. 4) …At any rate, there is nothing to be gained by indulging in “if onlys”….Then look to the future, not the past.
This to me is a submininal message as JoeGrundy brought up. "If only" the end had come in '75 "this" would have never happened. Don't look at the past misgivings of our belief - look to the future.
(pg. 5) Remember, if we were to leave Jehovah, we would still have problems.
Are parents turning their backs on Jehovah due to their children leaving? Are they trying to reinforce that "without Jehovah's" blessing their life would become only a problem. When first leaving i felt that everything that happen wrong in my life was because i had turned my back on Jehovah. I felt guilt and felt that I would never be able to go back and completely please "him". That my destiny was to live a miserable life full of problems due to me turning my back on Jehovah. This reinforces that they are still using the same pitch that they were using before '75.
I am so glad I grew up!