The memorial this year was the first one I've been to since being DF'd. When they were passing the emblems they missed out the row where me and another DF'd brother were sitting. The other person said it had been happening for the last 5 years he'd be going back to meetings. I wasn't happy with this so I had a word with one of the elders at the next meeting. He said that it was beacause of a question from readers in the 50s where it said that Judas was not at the last supper when jesus passed the emblems, so modern day judas's(DA'd & DF'd) should not be offered them either. I asked how this correlated with a question from readers in 1976 about what would be done if a DF'd person partook of the emblems(A situation which would not occur if they were not passed to them), and also a watchtower study article from 1990 that stated that the emblems should be passed to all in attendance. The elder got quite agitated at this and mumbled something about reviewing the situation for next year.
Has anyone else here been in that situation, or know of something similar done by the elders