One way to expand your range of interests is to read books about a wide variety of subjects. That will give you more to talk about with people you happen to meet. Try going to a 'regular' ( non-JW, non- fundamentalist) church and see how you like it. Keep trying different ones until you find one where you feel comfortable. Most churches have women's groups where you could meet potential friends. You don't have to 'buy into' any doctrines you don't feel comfortable with. Just explain that you are trying different options. To start with, going to a movie with someone or out to eat would be enjoyable. Close friendships take time to develop, so do things gradually. Sounds like you would be an excellent friend. So taking a few small steps outside your normal routine might help you to feel better and get a fresh outlook on life. Anyway, I wish you all the best.
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I had a lovely weekend, how about everyone else??
by quellycatface inthere is life outside the organisation, which i have the pleasure to have experienced, since december.
i went to a lovely church wedding saturday, followed by a reception.
hic!!.
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Cinnamon Challenge, My 1st time.
by dazed but not confused ini went camping in pagosa springs with my brother and his family last weekend.
i asked him if he wanted to do the "cinnamon challenge".
he had never heard of it before and i had never tried it.
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NAVYTOWN
THE CINNAMON CHALLENGE IS VERY DANGEROUS!!! PLEASE DO NOT PARTICIPATE IN TRYING IT!!!
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Need a Game Plan
by bafh ini'm not sure what is going on at the convention, but i just got a desperate call from a friend wanting me to attend sunday's morning session.
last weekend, my mom invited me too.instead of saying something like, "i'm sorry, but i have no intention of going back," and having them completely freak out - i agreed to go to the sunday morning session.
any recommendations?
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NAVYTOWN
When you attend the Sunday session, you will be asked how you liked it, what you got out of it, etc. I would advise saying something very vague, such as 'it brought up things to think about' or 'they certainly said a lot'. Do not give the impression that you liked what was said. If further questions are asked, say something like 'i can't say much more at this point'. Anyway, I hope you made it through the session without projectile-vomiting. Good luck!
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Please help me destroy the logic of October 2014 Conversation With a Neighbor.
by kneehighmiah inhttp://www.jw.org/en/publications/magazines/wp20141001/gods-kingdom-prophecy-1/.
this has got to be a joke.
anyone with half a brain would destroy the logical fallicies in this article.
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NAVYTOWN
The article never really answers the central question, WHERE in the Bible is 1914 mentioned? It get sidetracked into a discussion of the book of Daniel. But never really gets back to the main question that was asked. Just because some Bible Students in the late1800s 'discerned' that somehow 1914 was the start of Kingdon rule, doesn't mean that's what the BIBLE really says. It's all just idle speculation and supposition. The article seems to be written to appeal to those with lower-than-average intellects. Of course that means JWs will believe every word of it.
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Something Beautiful to Contemplate when in a Time of Darkness
by fulltimestudent inin east and south asian thought, lotus flowers have a symbolic significance.
the plant grows in mud, but produces a flower of great beauty.
in a time of darkness, it can become a symbol of hope:.
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NAVYTOWN
That is for sure the most beautiful post EVER!!!!
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Where has the WTS said God Lives?
by blondie indoes god dwell outside the universe or inside?.
jehovah lives in pleiades star cluster galaxy...star trek anyone?.
1927 "the face of the deep, of course, would be toward the pleiades, which are claimed to be the habitation of jehovah.
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NAVYTOWN
Some physicists now speculate that there are a great number of Universes contained in the 'Multiverse'. And, who knows, the Multiverse might itself be a small part of an even larger system. So speculating on the 'location' of 'God' would seem to be a pointless exercise. In my view, what people refer to as 'God' is the sum total of EVERYTHING that exists, and everything that DOESN'T exist. The JW view of 'Jehovah' is a very limited, anthropomorphic concept. And I'm sure a lot of Christians, JWs included, think of 'Heaven' as a real 'place' where they will be living after they die. And of course JWs believe that millions will live 'forever' on 'Paradise Earth'. Try to imagine exactly how long 'forever' would be, compared to the age of our Universe.
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South Africa Bethel Dance Party!
by Atlantis insouth africa bethel dance party.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pm1jhbapb1u.petra
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NAVYTOWN
I would LOVE to be in the room when those old GB goons watch this video. I'm sure that prissy stuffed-shirt Anthony Morris (The Turd) will literally have a bowel movement right there. Look for upcoming GB speeches to stress that there should be no 'overzealous show of emotion' on any KH or Bethel stage. The GB will definitely tighten up on these joyful gatherings.
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The elders are 'letting me fade'
by TableForOne ini attended my last meeting in january 2014, having realised that i'd been lied to for 20+ years (i'm now 43 y/o).
rumours spread of my 'apostasy'.. in may, cobe contacted me inviting me to a private meeting with elders at the kh.
(no mention of the meeting being a jc).
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NAVYTOWN
The same phrase can be applied by people who still must go to meetings because of family, etc. When an Elder or anyone else asks an intrusive question, or tries to guilt-trip you, simply respond with 'I have nothing to say'. Those are the FIVE MAGIC WORDS that will simplify your Witness life to a GREAT extent. You don't owe ANYONE an explanation about ANYTHING. Just refuse to get drawn into nosy questions or discussions by saying 'I have nothing to say'. Try it next time some busybody tries to question you. What a relief it is to not feel 'obligated' to divulge information that is your own personal business.
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The elders are 'letting me fade'
by TableForOne ini attended my last meeting in january 2014, having realised that i'd been lied to for 20+ years (i'm now 43 y/o).
rumours spread of my 'apostasy'.. in may, cobe contacted me inviting me to a private meeting with elders at the kh.
(no mention of the meeting being a jc).
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NAVYTOWN
If the Elders approach you in the future asking questions as to why you've not been at meetings, try this approach: simply tell them 'I have nothing to say'. That's it. Keep saying exactly that if ANY more questions are asked, by ANYONE! They can't DF you for saying nothing. Even the U.S. Bill of Rights gives citizens the 'Right to remain silent' so as not to incriminate themselves.
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Advice on fading needed
by wallievase inthese 2 options are before me right now-.
1. write a letter to the elders and my family, not da myself but basically saying i have too much going on in my life and am confused, so that they will stop bothering my wife and stop asking me questions all the time.
after i write the letter continue to go to the hall less and less.... 2. appease my wife.
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NAVYTOWN
If you want a quick and easy exit, try this: Just stop going to all meetings, field service, etc. Then when ANYONE, including your wife, asks you for your 'reasons', just say these FIVE MAGIC WORDS: 'i have nothing to say'. That's it.....say NOTHING else. No matter what is asked or who asks it, just continue using the FIVE MAGIC WORDS. 'i have nothing to say'. They cannot DF you for saying nothing. Even the U.S. Bill of Rights gives citizens the 'right to remain silent' so as not to incriminate themselves. So the same principle applies with the JWs. You will surely get some high pressure guilt-inducing comments and questions when you stop attending. Just do not engage at all. Your wife and relatives will just have to get used to the fact that you aren't participating in their JW mind-games any longer. Stay strong and good luck!!