Bruja-del-Sol

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  Maybe I'm the bad guy after all

  by braincleaned in

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  maybe i'm the bad guy after all.

  my mom and sis love me and still talk to me, although i'm clearly an apostate.

  their loophole?

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  Bruja-del-Sol

  Hey Vince,

  I wish you well and hope to see you back again here. Really like your posts! And I think I understand the feeling about forums... been on a lot of forums, but sometimes it's hard to stay detached and don't take things personal.

  But in fact all it is, is just blacks signs on a white screen... the emotions triggered are inside of ourselves... And that's the only thing that matters: taking care of our own 'inner world', giving it the time and space to heal. Everything that happens outside can only have an impact if we allow it to. Some people get scared of a spider, but lots of people don't have that fear. What makes the scared people scared? The spider? NO, it's their own fears, thoughts, memories, anything coming from their own minds! The spider has nothing to do with it.

  Same goes for anything and everything in our lives that seem to come from outside of us and hurt us.

  That's what I've learned the last decade... change your inner world, then your outer world will change along!

  But don't take my word for it, if it resonates with you just give it a try. If it doesn't, then just ignore me

  With love ,

  Bruja
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  no birthday celebration after all

  by losingit in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  new boyfriend is upset bc an old boyfriend when i was a teenager is on my fb friend list and wished me a happy birthday.

  was supposed to go to turkish embassy for cultural celebration.

  my first birthday in years, and total freaking meltdown.

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  Bruja-del-Sol

  First I agree with the previous posters, a boyfriend being that jealous about someone from your past doesn't deserve your love!

  And I also like to say that in a way you're right, birthdays aren't always that special. Don't make it a bigger thing than it is! Sometimes birthdays are a blast, with lots of fun, laughter and happiness... and sometimes they just suck. My husband's birthday last year was a great party with his family and our friends who all came to visit. This year his birthday was just not so good... *understatement*... All our friends and family are far away now that we've moved to Spain, and we had a lot of stress to deal with so we took it out on each other and that way his birthday was nothing but a disappointment. (My own birthdays are never special... I still have a problem celebrating them other than having a dinner and a glass of wine with hubby).

  So like I said, birthdays can be a joy, but don't get your expectations up too high or you'll be disappointed.

  And you know what? Before you know it another year has passed... time for another birthday
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  Irony: JWs who refuse to answer their door on Halloween!

  by adamah in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  with halloween fast approaching, it struck me looking back how ironic it was when the worm turned every year on halloween, when jws turn off the porch light, draw the curtains, stumble around in the dark, etc.

  when the worldlies come to knock on their door, lol!.

  on the other hand, i remember the family escaping from the fortress at dusk to go to a movie, bowling, etc.

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  Bruja-del-Sol

  Oh yes, I recall... doors shut, lights off and silently hiding untill all the kids were gone again. I always felt so stupid doing that!

  Last year I dressed up as a witch, had lots of candy and decorated the front door with a devilish laughing and moving (electronic) witch doll with lit eyes... Soon as the kids rang the doorbell I opened the door, clapped my hands and the witch doll would start her laughing... hahahaha, the looks on those little faces! They loved it and didn't want to leave, just clapping their hands over and over again to hear that laughter...

  I don't think we'll see anyone this year, since we're living in the outback now... But instead we'll have a wonderful Samhainparty, just me and my hubby.
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  YOU ARE DOING A GOOD JOB!

  by abiather in

  1. jw
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  i am still a jw.

  i cant give any more details than this because of my family members who are devout jws.

  i cherish a larger picture in my heart without anybody knowing ittrue worship means love and compassion, (luke 10:25-37) not belonging to any organization or having a set of belief system!

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  Bruja-del-Sol

  Welcome Abiather!

  I like your two 'rules'. My two rules are 'do what you want as long as you harm none' (including oneself) and 'whatever you do, good or bad, will return to you threefold' (sort of 'what goes around comes around').

  Enjoy your stay at JWN
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  So I got engaged...

  by frogonmytoe in

  1. jw
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  ...to my boyfriend, we're going to have one of those weddings ('gay' weddings to the straights).. although my jw family know i'm gay, and not going to meetings, only one of my sisters has sussed the situation.

  but i think after 3 years it's about time i told them.

  especially if sometime in the future i'll turn up with a (gay) wedding ring.

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  Bruja-del-Sol

  Congratulations Frogonmytoe! Wish you a wonderful happy life with your fiance and in time a beautiful wedding. Let nobody judge you, what they say tells more about them than it does about you!

  Btw... I love the jokes made here... LOL
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  it's my birthday too!

  by losingit in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  36 years young :-) .

  celebrating for the first time in more than ten years.

  birthday cake for breakfast with my girls.

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  Bruja-del-Sol

  Happy Birthday and many many more to come!!!
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  Meanwhile in Canada...

  by jgnat in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  canadian graffiti, and to kill a canadian: .

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  Bruja-del-Sol

  That second one is so funny! Wonder how the dude felt when he read that... ouch! hahaha
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  About my Coming Out...

  by braincleaned in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  since my coming out publicly, i have received a lot of kind words.. i wanted to thank all of you from the depth of my heart.. .

  on the other hand, i need to make two things clear:.

  i'm often encouraged to use my position to create cartoons or stories for nickelodeon, etc.... i do not have that kind of fire-power.

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  Bruja-del-Sol

  This guy certainly looks insane to me... but who am I? Just shake the dust off your feet and move on... to use some phrase I recall from somewhere...
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  What are you NOT allowed to say as a Jehovahs Witness?

  by The Quiet One in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  "one of the bible study was listening and singing the song by jason mraz titled lucky with the chorus going like this;.

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  'i'm lucky i'm in love with my best friend.. lucky to have been where i have been.. lucky to be coming home again.. lucky we're in love in every way.. lucky to have stayed where we have stayed.. lucky to be coming home someday..'.

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  Bruja-del-Sol

  Being a teenager I wasn't allowed to sing the song from Irene Cara, "Fame"... because of the phrase "I'm gonna make it to heaven"...

  And 'bless you' after sneezing wasn't allowed either, toasting with a glass of wine wasn't and congratulating someone with their birthday wasn't allowed nor receiving birthday wishes on your own birthday. Oh and don't forget the New Year's wishes... I recall when I was seventeen working at an office and the new year had just started. After a couple of days off we came back in the office and everybody started shaking hands and kissing each other and wishing each other their wishes for the upcoming year... and I just stood there, nearly paralized, hands behind my back, sheepishly smiling and praying they would leave me alone. It was all so embarrassing...
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  Goodbye JWD/JWN (my last post)

  by slimboyfat in

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  2. friends

  after some considerable thought i have decided that i will no longer post on this forum because i want to return to jehovah.

  thank you for all the kindness and many interesting discussions over the years.

  i wish you all well in the future and the decisions you make.

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  Bruja-del-Sol

  Maybe he's coming back with a new account, new name...? After the things I've read from SBF I can hardly imagine he's going back to the WTS... He's probably p'ing his pants laughing about us...