Posts by KateWild

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Playing the dating Game..............how do you play?

by KateWild in

everyone knows i have been playing this dating game, and what a fun game it has been.

i have met a few nice guys but remained strictly platonic, and also met some really pushy guys too that just wanted sex.. i have not met mr right yet, but who knows what the platonic guys could evolve into.. it's all a game and anyone who says they don't play games when dating is lying.

does a man always have to make the first move?.

KateWild

In the end, you hit it off with the person or you don't. If you're looking for long-term, he has to like the real you and you have to like the real him. Instead of games, why not start off being you so you can honestly appraise each other and decide if you want to go further?-JWs

I am an open person, I go as KateWild on dating sites too, so after I meet a person I am open with them. The way I play the game is that once I have been asked out I contact them when I feel like it. If I don't get a response I know he doesn't want a second date. If I have a promise for a second date but no firm plans I initiate contact to get firm plans and stay in touch, I always get responses, they have always wanted the second date.

I play the game in an open way, I find guys like that. But I still haven't found MR Right yet, I am on a promise for a second date with one guy though. He seems nice the first date was fun.

Kate xx

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Playing the dating Game..............how do you play?

by KateWild in

everyone knows i have been playing this dating game, and what a fun game it has been.

i have met a few nice guys but remained strictly platonic, and also met some really pushy guys too that just wanted sex.. i have not met mr right yet, but who knows what the platonic guys could evolve into.. it's all a game and anyone who says they don't play games when dating is lying.

does a man always have to make the first move?.

KateWild

I agree it's nice when the man makes the first move,but some men need more encouragement.-EI

I feel flattered by all the attention even though 90% is from guys trying to have sex on the first date...lol!!! I may do the asking option soon.

Kate xx

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Playing the dating Game..............how do you play?

by KateWild in

everyone knows i have been playing this dating game, and what a fun game it has been.

i have met a few nice guys but remained strictly platonic, and also met some really pushy guys too that just wanted sex.. i have not met mr right yet, but who knows what the platonic guys could evolve into.. it's all a game and anyone who says they don't play games when dating is lying.

does a man always have to make the first move?.

KateWild

DM, I am not talking about something platonic turning romantic after a while, and feelings developing. I am talking about the dating game on dating sites. I just respond to those who show interest and wait for a guy who is messaging me to ask me out.

If he does not ask me the next one will. Lots of guy seem to like the dominatrix approach so it seems.

I don't have enough time to go searching for guys, they are contacting me and asking to meet me and when I respond to them a few more contact me. I am not popular by any means it's just how these sites work. I am getting the hang of it now.

DM, you should try them out. BTW DM, are you meeting up with us in Central London for my bday on the 16th?

Kate xx

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KateWild's Face. Hello guys this is me, What do you look like?

by KateWild in

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KateWild

bumped for truthseeker. Kate xx

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Playing the dating Game..............how do you play?

by KateWild in

everyone knows i have been playing this dating game, and what a fun game it has been.

i have met a few nice guys but remained strictly platonic, and also met some really pushy guys too that just wanted sex.. i have not met mr right yet, but who knows what the platonic guys could evolve into.. it's all a game and anyone who says they don't play games when dating is lying.

does a man always have to make the first move?.

KateWild

Lots of men don't like pushy women though, I am not keen on the quiet types. I like confident men. The fact I am on dating sites means I am going to say yes to a date, especially if I have responded to his message. Endless messaging goes nowhere. If they are there to meet someone they need to ask for a date, IMO.

Anyone else, do you think??????????

Does a man always have to make the first move?

Kate xx

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Advice about going to Meetings...................oh why didn't I listen...LOL!!!!!

by KateWild in

i have been back to meetings for a month now.

prepared for them all except for when i went on holiday.. todays wt is about jehovah's organisation, it's clear loaded language and manipulation through fear.

i am not perturbed by it in the least.

KateWild

Thanks Happy,

I am escalating it through the proper channels, it was the public shunning and rudness that had the adverse reaction to my ASD. Confidentiality breaches are more complex to prove. Kate xx

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Just curious...how did you find Jehovah's Witness Net?

by cultBgone in

jw
friends

the influx of new posters made me wonder if the push to view jw.org is helping curious ones find this support site?.

please post whether you found jwn during an internet search or if someone told you about it.. i myself was directed here by a df'd family member once i shared my doubts with that person..

KateWild

Cedars from jwsurvey introduced me. Kate xx

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Advice about going to Meetings...................oh why didn't I listen...LOL!!!!!

by KateWild in

i have been back to meetings for a month now.

prepared for them all except for when i went on holiday.. todays wt is about jehovah's organisation, it's clear loaded language and manipulation through fear.

i am not perturbed by it in the least.

KateWild

You now sound very happy Kate, that's the most important thing.-TF1

Thanks happy happy joy joy Kate xx

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hello everyone

by purrpurr in

jw
friends

i've been browsing the site for some time as things that the society teach just are not adding up much these days.

by exploring some of the threads on here i'm starting to see why.

a brief bio.

KateWild

Out of the group of peers I grew up with I'm the only one who hasn't left, been df'd or reproved.-purrpurr

Welcome purrpurr, get in touch with all your peers that have left. Track them down they can really support you. Next, read as much as you can from former members, I recomend jwsurvey, jwfacts and CoC. They were my main three resources to help me learn the truth about "the truth" (TTATT)

Keep posting lets us know your progress

Kate xx

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Advice about going to Meetings...................oh why didn't I listen...LOL!!!!!

by KateWild in

i have been back to meetings for a month now.

prepared for them all except for when i went on holiday.. todays wt is about jehovah's organisation, it's clear loaded language and manipulation through fear.

i am not perturbed by it in the least.

KateWild

It was EU's insistence that led Canada then the US to legislate privacy.-jgnat

It's appaulling if confidentiality is broken, but how can I prove it, plus there is spousal privilege. I know Sis IamSoFullOfMyself has told her hubby COBE, that I was there. There is no way she would pass it up, but how can I prove it.

jgnat, it's sweet that your glad I am not going to meetings, just a silly phase to win my loved ones over. I can do more good now that I am away from the KH.

Kate xx