Bohm, no one else said they would leave.
You seem perturbed by the fact that I looked up your posting history.
That is my practice when people post on my threads....I look them up to see who I am talking to. I want to know more about the person giving me advice.
I also asked you straight out some personal questions and you answered me but did not reveal anything pertenant.
Trust me your girlfriend is safe from being exposed or stalked by elders.
Kate xx