Hi Scoob... I don't think I have ever addressed you personally (it's the dog thing I think) But you caught my attention with that one...
and this is of course just my dumb old opinion... as far as the "validity" thing goes, I would have to say that it is the organization that has undermined it's own validity by it's actions.
And for "exploiting pain" ??? I used to post here under another name... I posted my story along side the others. I would have to say that it was for me, the best therapy. In some way, we all know the board is monitored, by them. Some realize when they are putting all that hurt up there in black and white, that somebody is going to see it. A way of saying "YOU hurt me". And some, truly just dont know what to do. BUT I think either way you look at it, there IS valid pain. Whether someone is being shunned by their family, or just at a loss of understanding.
Yes there are those looking to start something, always will be on the net. But I have found that MOST of the people here genuinely care. and as for slander... all these stories just can't be fabrication.
DO YOU KNOW THAT I GOT A PERSONAL PHONE CALL TODAY, JUST OUT OF CONCERN FROM SOMEONE ON THIS BOARD?? Genuine caring 100% we-all-got-hurt-by-this-thing-companionship.