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  Where Do You Think That Plane Is?

  by minimus in

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  what do you think happened?

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  Skeeter1 - it's an interesting theory but I really can't see it. This is a 777 we're talking about. You can't land that in a jungle clearing, you need a major airfield and you're only going to be able to land there incognito with the backing of a national government, in which case why bother hijacking? - just help yourself to a government plane. Anyway, which government would support this? - as you say, you'd be at major risk of a visit from a few hundred thousand heavily armed Chinese guys.

  Do you think the pilot had back-up? If not, why wouldn't the crew break the door down? Why wouldn't the passengers make phone calls?

  I suspect it's just a terrible accident.
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  Has anyone found comfort/encouragement from "worldly songs"?

  by awakening in

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  i remember reading a thread when my exit was starting, about inspirational songs.

  someone posted a link to the "shins" for a fool.

  this was a surprising help to me.

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  Not sure it's inspirational but I always smile when I hear the line 'Why don't you all fade away?' in The Who's 'My Generation'. Great advice and also no overlapping nonsense in the title.
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  Wake up and smell the cult! please I'm begging you.

  by sparrowdown in

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  at times i yearn for those i love that are still "in" to just wake up and smell the cult.. i end up feeling sorry for them yet angry at them at the same time.. i know each person is on their own journey and its a process,.

  but i just wish the process would hurry up already!.

  when will this nightmare end.

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  Sparrowdown - for a never-in like me, it was really hard to understand how my relative (a convert many years ago) could ever have been taken in by the WT gibberish. My relative now has born-in children (teenagers) and I was furious when I was told that these bright outgoing youngsters will not be going to college because of the 'worldly dangers'.

  However I've come to the conclusion that, like Clarity says, many Witnesses just don't care about problems with, and changes to, doctrine. They can't countenance the idea that they (and for born-ins, their parents) have been wrong for so long and that they have potentially wasted so much time on falsehoods.

  It seems to me that sites like this do a great job in encouraging those with doubts to leave and supporting those who do. I also hope that it deters some from joining the WT. However it can't do much about the great many Witnesses who are happy to carry on regardless.

  Best wishes.

  Bemused
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  How do Bible believers get around this question.... ??

  by Phizzy in

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  bible believers of the literalist persuasion like the wt and other weird fundies actually believe the bible stories and chronology and therefore believe that adam and eve were the first humans.. those of us of european ancestry all contain within our dna a percentage of neanderthal dna.

  the neanderthals died out 30,000 years ago.. how will the wt and other bible literalists (an untenable position by the way) get around the facts ?.

  i suppose by simply ignoring the facts, as with the flood of noah and a myriad other things ?.

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  Phizzy - It baffles me. I guess they must just ignore anything that conflicts with their myths.

  DD - How do you KNOW that 30,000 years is inaccurate?
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  What is the purpose of Field Service??

  by quellycatface in

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  the so used to say it was life saving work.i wasn't convinced.it was soul destroying in the area i lived.i didn't want to be so cynical as to think, it was just to gain converts, therefore more money but it certainly looks that way now..

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  Training for the world slow walking championship?
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  New Light - Good for goose... gander SOL

  by Zoos in

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  when jws accept new light they must, by default, accept that what they were teaching was false.

  they allow themselves the luxury of error so long as it is in the pursuit of better understanding.. .

  you would think this scenario demands that allowance be made for other religions with false teachings, but alas, no.

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  Also, if you accept new light, don't you also have to accept that there may well be more new light in future, ie accept that some of the current doctrines are probably wrong?
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  Progess!

  by Jon Preston in

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  well my wife asked me loint blank..."do you wanna be a witness anymore?

  " and i told her no.. .

  we then went into 1914 and shunning and 1975 and she said sheswondered many times about it.. anyways she said "so what do we do now?

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  Wow, that's great news!

  It does make me wonder though how many more couples are out there, both with doubts but worried about sharing them.
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  I'm not trying to brag, but being an EXJW is awesome!!! Status Update-

  by Coffee House Girl in

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  hello jwn!

  i don't get to check in here or comment as often as i would like because i have been working so hard at school...but i just have to share my news in hopes that newbees can see that taking the leap to enroll in higher education is worth it-.

  i am graduating this spring with a bachelor degree in art history, minor anthropology...many people (including nonjw's have given me flack for choosing a "dead end" career path) but since leaving the watchtower organization's group-think mentality and "leaning on my own understanding" instead... i decided to say fuck everyone else's opinion...i am going to pursue my passion to work in a museum as a curator or archivist-.

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  Well done! I've always been convinced that you have to study what you enjoy and not what might be most 'useful'.
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  Who will win the premier league (footy or 'soccer') mine is liverpool fc

  by Jon Preston in

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  what a year it had been!!!

  liverpool fc (forgive me for this losts one-sidedness) have gone leaps and bounds and luck to reach secknd spot but without games in hand to man city....i must say an air or cl against ac milan is in the air.

  and lfc have a real shot at winning.

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  Whoever wins, the best title race for many years!
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  Who will win the premier league (footy or 'soccer') mine is liverpool fc

  by Jon Preston in

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  what a year it had been!!!

  liverpool fc (forgive me for this losts one-sidedness) have gone leaps and bounds and luck to reach secknd spot but without games in hand to man city....i must say an air or cl against ac milan is in the air.

  and lfc have a real shot at winning.

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  It's got to be either City or Chelsea for me. Liverpool just don't have the strength in depth to cope with injuries, suspensions etc. If I had to choose one, I'd go for Chelsea as they have the best manager and, in Hazard, the best player in the Premiership.