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  Do You Reply To Your PM's?

  by snowbird in

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  all of them?.

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  Of course. Apart from 1. That person was telling me I should go back to the meetings.
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  No refreshments.

  by quellycatface in

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  why is it that we never had coffee/tea after the meeting??

  yet, nearly every kh has a kitchen??.

  i do now i'm going to church.

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  quellycatface

  I really liked reading all your comments and stories. Thank you.

  I now love coffee and a chat after church but it took a while to relax, after the stiffness of the KH.

  Got Messy Church this Sunday with bacon rolls. See you there xxx
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  When in Rome.....

  by quellycatface in

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  hi there.. have finally taken the bull by the horns and booked a trip to rome.

  always wanted to go.

  great architecture, food and atmosphere.. of course, i have to do the vatican.after seeing it all in angels and demons, plus the sistine chapel etc..... has anyone else been to rome??

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  I'm going all over, my plan is Florence, Pisa, Rome and a bit of Tuscany at the moment.
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  When in Rome.....

  by quellycatface in

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  hi there.. have finally taken the bull by the horns and booked a trip to rome.

  always wanted to go.

  great architecture, food and atmosphere.. of course, i have to do the vatican.after seeing it all in angels and demons, plus the sistine chapel etc..... has anyone else been to rome??

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  quellycatface

  Hi there.

  Have finally taken the bull by the horns and booked a trip to Rome. Always wanted to go. Great architecture, food and atmosphere.

  Of course, I have to do the Vatican.After seeing it all in Angels and Demons, plus the Sistine Chapel etc....

  Has anyone else been to Rome???Any tips, hints and must do's???

  Going in October, can't wait.
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  No refreshments.

  by quellycatface in

  1. jw
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  why is it that we never had coffee/tea after the meeting??

  yet, nearly every kh has a kitchen??.

  i do now i'm going to church.

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  quellycatface

  Why is it that we never had coffee/tea after the meeting?? Yet, nearly every KH has a kitchen??

  I do now I'm going to church. So much more social.
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  Did You Ever Feel Guilty Because You Deserted The JW Religion?

  by minimus in

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  once i left, i never yearned for anything associated with the religion.

  i didn't miss their doctrines, their erroneous thinking.

  i never felt guilty because i abandoned the religion i was raised in.. i believe the reason for my not feeling guilty is pretty simple.

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  quellycatface

  No guilt, just disappointment in a load of empty promises.
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  FINE-TUNING our thinking by clarifying our VOCABULARY of conscience

  by Terry in

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  are you confused?.

  is your thinking and reasoning ineffective because of ambiguity?.

  do you sometimes find yourself unclear about what certain words mean?.

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  Terry, I told you not to put my picture on here. It's embarrassing.
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  How do you get a word in edge-wise, when talking to a JW?

  by Faithful Witness in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  just looking for some pointers, as i was never a jw.

  i have an elderette coming over on friday, for another performance.. last week, i was under the impression that she was coming to answer some questions i had.

  it quickly became clear that she came with a plan for the "conversation," and we went on an expedition from one passage of the bible to the next, while she made leaping claims, argued with herself and kept me confused and always with more than one question lingering in my mind, while she continued talking and talking.. when i have a conversation with someone, i tend to stop talking when they are speaking.

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  If all the above fails, you could try a slap?
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  Where to go from here(new to TTHATT)

  by Batman89 in

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  2. experiences

  as some of you know now im fairly new to ttatt so im still coming to grips with the fact that in my 24 years of life up to this point i have been in an organization that isnt the true religon that i believed.

  im a very positve and optimistic person and have never been depressed while a youth in the "truth", but its still somewhat of a tough pill to swallow considering i gave up my dream of playing college basketball to get baptized when i was 18. and also the fact that armegeddon really isnt coming and i wont get to spend forever with my wonderful parents(who also know tthatt) and others close to me.. i also consider myself to have good social skills(that i developed during my rebelious years) although im somewhat of an introvert and always had "worldly" friends even when i was an ms but i im finding it tough to shake off the "all worldly people are bad" mentality that ive had for so long.

  i guess my question is how long did it take you guys to get over everything and move on?

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  quellycatface

  7 months out. Da'd 4 months ago.

  Every day is different in emotional terms. But better to be out than in.Trust me on that.I've now accepted that the friends I had in the truth weren't genuine friends, it was all dependent on your activity level. Balls to that.

  The hardest thing I had to come to terms with was that there wasn't going to be a new world. I love the thought of a beautiful new earth and animals that are tame. No more poverty, violence and war. My illusions. My heartbreak that it wasn't going to happen.

  The best thing is now I am in control.

  I still believe in God and Jesus but not the Watchtarded way of worship. I don't believe in FS, or pushing my religion onto others. This is real religous freedom.

  Good luck to you. Xx
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  Need an Exit Plan Fast!

  by kneehighmiah in

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  my girlfriend cult handlers have gotten to her.

  they suggested she should no longer communicate with someone who's thinking isn't in line with jehovah's organization.

  we argued and she told me to go hang myself.

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  quellycatface

  She said to "go hang yourself"??? What a lovely Christian person the WT are making of her.

  Knickers to her.

  Time to get the hell out of Dodge my boy.

  Good advice here.

  Sorry for your troubles. And remember there's lots of lovely ladies out there and great new friends.

  Love Quelly xx