I enjoyed reading your post.
The talks are so bland now, compared to, say 10 years ago. I noticed that when I was still in last year, after an absence of 4 years. They have no real message, no content or inspiration.
I much prefer the sermons at my local church. Today it was about Peter being released from prison by the angel. The key point was when he went to the house and no one believed the girl that said Peter was at the door because they lacked faith in God. Then it went on to talk about praying with faith, rather than by routine. I really enjoyed it. I have a lady vicar, who's really kind and caring but enjoys a joke too.
I never felt I was learning anything at the KH.