Posts by Odrade

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Nosferatu's School of Dating - Lesson 1.4 - Happiness

by Nosferatu in

lesson 1.3 is here:.

http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/20/126614/1.ashx.

i've seen countless men who seem to posess the mindset of "i need a woman to be happy".

Odrade

Actually J-ex-W, of the three examples I mentioned, two of them were college age, one of whom was actually in college - a freshman, the other was about 20. The last on I specifically mentioned was in his thirties. One was an Ex-JW, one a JW, and the other was non-religious. I agree that transitional times (college,) are especially vulnerable, but I don't think that either college "men," or men in transitional phases have a lock on creating fantasies around disinterested women.

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Nosferatu's School of Dating - Lesson 1.4 - Happiness

by Nosferatu in

lesson 1.3 is here:.

http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/20/126614/1.ashx.

i've seen countless men who seem to posess the mindset of "i need a woman to be happy".

Odrade

If I had too many veins in my nutsack I might end it all too.

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Nosferatu's School of Dating - Lesson 1.4 - Happiness

by Nosferatu in

lesson 1.3 is here:.

http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/20/126614/1.ashx.

i've seen countless men who seem to posess the mindset of "i need a woman to be happy".

Odrade

Gumby, gumby. This is Nos' school of DATING! Not get-married-to-your-soulmate-then-watch-her-die-without-pilling-yourself school. I think "be happy with yourself," and "not fearing abandonment by a woman" is GREAT dating advice.

I've known more than a few boys and men who get suicidal when their kinda almost girlfriend decides to date other guys living in the fraternity next door. One slashed his wrists, another took pills, another one didn't eat for a week solid, there are more. These guys were obviously equating that woman with their entire life and happiness. When she moved on, they had nothing. That's insane. Women do it too. I remember spending what felt like WEEKS lying in the bathroom crying my brains out because some boy dumped me. I was insecure and not too happy with the kind of person I was then.

Sure it's natural to be sad, but letting your whole life grind to a halt over a DATE? Pretty good indicator that something is amiss in one's own life if so.

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I believe in miracles...

by Confession in

did you as a jw?

on this subject i have considered the perspective of many jws (and plenty of others) pretty ridiculous--both now and when i was a zealous jw.

consider this fictitious (but fairly realistic) interview.... ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------.

Odrade

Confession, in the future I'd like it if you'd ask permission before quoting my mother on this discussion board. Thank you.

;)

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I ran them off !

by oldflame in

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the witnesses came to my complex today, this time it was two very good looking women.

i walked up to them and calmly said that this is the second warning that they were trespassing on my property and that no jehovah's witnesses are aloud on this property knocking on doors.

i have a tenant who is a jw and this is fine with me and they are aloud to come and visit her but i do not allow them to bother my tenants as they all prefer they stay away anyways.

Odrade

It's okay Vinny, maybe when you've been around longer than 21 posts, you'll be in a better position to comment on the character of long-term posters. Nothing OldFlame did was abusive, nor even offensive enough to warrant all of those names you called him, yet that's how you'd like to spin it. That's fine.

Sounds like you might want to make an examination of the hand that is pointing the "abusive" finger, cause I'm pretty sure there are at least 3 other fingers pointing the other direction.

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My story....

by Granny Muffins in

jw
friends

it's been about 3 months since i was disfellowshipped.

it was because i asked about the society's predictions concerning 1975. i have been disfellowshipped three times before, but now i'm serious and now, at the age of 75, i must begin my crusade against the society's bullshit.

i will tell the world my story!

Odrade

waves at Gman.

troll! *cough* troll...

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Nosferatu's School of Dating - Lesson 1.2 - Attraction

by Nosferatu in

lesson 1.1 is here:.

http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/20/126517/1.ashx.

for those of you who are wondering when i'm going to get to the subjects of how to ask her out, or how to approach a woman, they're coming, but we need to get your mind on the right track before any of that can happen.. another poster just recently started a thread, asking what women wanted.

Odrade

Surprisingly, I agree with almost everything here, but a big emphatic NO on throwing bits of paper. Playfulness is good, juvenile playfulness... well, just be sure you're doing that with a very immature woman, cause a grown-up would likely find that annoying.

Huge applause for the "don't buy lavish gifts and dinners" on the first few dates... I'd even extend that to waiting until at least a dozen "real" dates have gone by before spending big bucks.

Meh. There are lots of women who would say none of this is true, but it's how most women act. I don't think a guy should feign disinterest, or try to manipulate the woman into... whatever, but a guy should have his own life, and like himself, because we don't want to provide you with a life, or be the only one that likes you.

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