Rosemarie,as James Thomas said,"Let it go".I too have raised my children in the tru---err,LIE. They are out now and happily married to disgusting worldy women condemmed by the Society.
These daughters of ours by virtue of my sons marriage are two of the most beautiful woman a father and Mother in-law could want.My wife and I are so happy for them and contented,knowing that they are in good hands with their loving wives.
Our children do not blame us ,knowing that we were looking out for their everlasting happiness as we understood it back then.
Now they are balanced when it comes to religious discussions etc.They blame the Society ,not us.
They too have moved on with their lives.They are in their 30"s
Rest assured that you too did the best you could at the time,let it go and move on as many others like yourself ,including my family have done.
Take care of yourself, Blueblades