I have one on diaryland.com. I enjoy maintaining a collection of my thoughts and reflections. Im a pretty fast typer so it's much easier for me than writing w/ pen and paper.
brwneyedgrl1
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How many have online journals?
by Tuesday injust curious to see how many people have online jounals be it live journals or dead journals or a blog?
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I could REALLY use some help right now....
by babygrl4903 inhey all,.
ok...i know for a fact that you have all probably heard this before but i am new here so i don't really know all the topics that have been discussed.
so, at the risk of repeating past topics.....here i go.... i am 16 years old and have a boyfriend who is a jw.
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babygirl,
i know how you feel b/c ive been there. ive never been a jehovah's witness but i dated one for several years. there's a lot i could say about this subject and i'd be glad to tell you more about it if you'd like. just PM me. what i'll say for now is this...he will ultimately ask you to choose either him and his religion or your family and your faith...and if you dont choose him and his religion...it ain't gonna be pretty...trust me on that.
love, brwneyedgrl1
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hi again
by brwneyedgrl1 inim sure no one remembers me b/c i only posted a couple of times and it's been awhile since ive actually posted.
my story is here somewhere on this site im sure.
ive been friends with a jw for a long time..romantically involved with him for about 3 1/2 years.
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thanks for the welcome back, nikita, sunshine, and simon!
seeitall: yeah, i have been sorta just lurking for awhile. when J and i were still together..we had a huge arguement and i let it slip that i was visitng websites like this one and he went through the roof...first time anyone ever called me Satan he made me feel really guilty for even coming here. so i didnt post anymore. i snuck one or two in after awhile..but i always felt guilty. now i dont care
crazy151drinker: what part of cali are ya from, darlin?
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hi again
by brwneyedgrl1 inim sure no one remembers me b/c i only posted a couple of times and it's been awhile since ive actually posted.
my story is here somewhere on this site im sure.
ive been friends with a jw for a long time..romantically involved with him for about 3 1/2 years.
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hi all. im sure no one remembers me b/c i only posted a couple of times and it's been awhile since ive actually posted. my story is here somewhere on this site im sure. ive been friends with a JW for a long time..romantically involved with him for about 3 1/2 years. we havent been a couple since about two years ago. God has given me the strength to let him go and move on. ive seen exactly how controlling his religion can be and how it has completely blinded him. Despite never having been a witness myself...this religion has still affected me and ive been deeply hurt by it. although it's been such a long time since ive posted, i come here often and read the various topics posted. even though im not with this person anymore, i still care about him and im concerned for his future. this site has been a real comfort to me. it's encouraging to read that so many of you have escaped the clutches of the watchtower and it gives me hope that someday, he will too. so thanks for sharing your stories. it really does make a difference..more than you know.
love, brwneyedgrl1
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Love & Dating
by stefanieroe ini need someones advice on dating a jw when im not a believer.
i've just recently met him, lets call him chad, and he was the most amazing person ive ever met.
he was easy to talk to and funny, sweet, gorgeous.
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I enjoy reading comments on this forum but i dont usually post...I had to this time, though, because the topic really struck a chord w/ me
stef,
I understand what you're dealing w/ completely...trust me...ive been there. I met a JW while i was in HS and i too thought he was the sweetest and most amazing guy id ever met. we started dating after we graduated and then off and on after i left for college. the closer we got though...the more his behavior and attitude changed for the worse...very controlling...very demanding. things really got out of hand the last few months we were together. the final straw was when he told me that he wouldnt even be friends w/ me anymore if i chose not to study his religion w/ someone. I told him that i loved him very much but i just felt like doing so would be a very wrong choice. He has since severed all ties w/ me....wont answer my calls or reply to my emails. Im not saying that your guy would do that, but i just wanted you to know what my experience w/ a JW has been like. It's a lot of heartache that i'm still dealing w/. If you'd like to talk w/ someone...feel free to email me...id love to talk w/ you.
~brwneyedgrl1
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November birthdays-please sign in
by TweetieBird ini noticed that there are alot of birthdays this month, mine included.
my birthday was on the 12th.
all other scorpio's, please sign in and happy birthday!
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Mine's today, the 27th
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blacksheep, maybe i am showing how naive (sp?) i am and/or my stupidity, but i cant figure out the connection between throwing rice/confetti at weddings and sex. please explain it to this young one
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How to Keep JWs Away.
by Undecided inmy wife just told me about a guy where she worked who told her how he got rid of the jws at his door.
when he saw them comming up the drive way he took off his shirt and just cracked the door enough for them to see his bare chest as he bent over sidways.
he said,"we are nudist and you will have to take off your clothes if you come in.
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hehe...good one bonezz
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hi all, thanks for the many replies. i guess i should elaborate on what i said before. i met a JW when i was in tenth grade. i developed a crush on him as soon as i met him. he was just so nice. i made it really obvious that i liked him, but he just didnt seem interested in me. well, two years passed and then our senior year we became really close friends.
at the end of senior year, i found out that he developed feelings for me as well. so we saw each other off and on that summer and then a week before i went away to college, he told me that we couldnt be together b/c of our different religions. so we still kept in touch while i was away at school. and then when we saw each other a few months later, we were back together. our relationship continued into my sophomore year of college and we became extremely close around march, like actually referring to each other as boyfriend and girlfriend and we knew that we were in love with each other. but the closer we got, the more controlling he got...(i'll touch on this later ---i dont even have the strength to go there right now) and we got into a lot of fights over stupid trivial things. anyway, we broke up for good at the end of june and have remained apart since then.
we still talk on IM and we call each other to see how the other is doing. it's just been really rough b/c we love each other very much and want to be together but we know we cant be b/c of religious differences. it's not like we havent talked about the differences in our religion. we have. and it just ends up w/ both of us getting really frustrated. i want so badly for him to see the truth, ya know? it really breaks my heart. anyway, i just thought id elaborate a bit on my experience. have a good night everyone.
~brwneyegrl1
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hi everyone. i hope that you are all having a good day. im just looking for nice people to chat w/. im a young woman who's had a very heartbreaking relationship with a witness ( i am not, nor have I ever been a witness) and am interested in knowing who else out there has had to deal w/ the struggles of loving someone you cant be with. it's been pretty rough on me and im just looking for a friend to talk with and share my experience with. regardless of whether you've been in a situation similar to mine, id love to chat and get to know you.
~brwneyedgrl