Posts by incognito2014

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Poster country flags and privacy

by Simon in

the new forum originally had a little country flag next to each post showing the country that the post was made from based on the geoip encoding (the country the ip address is from).

before i switched over to the new site someone made an issue about it violating their privacy and i didn't want to complicate and confuse the switchover with policy debate at the same time as technical issues so removed the flags even though i disagreed.. someone has already requested it as a feature and i think it should be added back so i thought it's now time to open the discussion and get everyone's opinions.

first, the reason i think it should be shown:.

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The opening page on this site says.

We are not affiliated with the WTB&TS in in any way and we take your privacy and security very seriously doing our utmost to protect your identity and provide a friendly, tolerant and informative environment where you can ask questions, share information and make new friends. Membership is completely free and anonymous so why not join today!

If the way in which the site will display people's information (that they don't want displayed) is going to change I believe that the statement I copied above would no longer be valid.

Sounds a bit bait and switch like to me.

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The biggest sell off of Kingdom Halls in Britain :Update

by raymond frantz in

the biggest sell off of kingdom halls in britain.

hi guys last night i posted this here but only a few notes as it was quite fresh and only announced lasdt night at the meeting.i have now updated article and included a couple of useful links about this matter .

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Could be one reason why they stopped the mideweek book study. This leaves the hall open to be shared by 4 congregations more easily.

If I was still in and a hall I worked on and donated to was being sold and the money sent to the society I would be most unhappy.

This was a sign that Christendom was goiung downhill, they had to sell their churches.

They local people are so gullible

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What song or line from a song bests describes your time as a JW?????

by karter in

waisted days and waisted nites.. freddy fender..

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Relates to not while a JW but after.

Billy Joel - Got to begin again

Well so, here I am at the end of the road
Where do I go from here?
I always figured it would be like this
Still nothin' seems to be quite clear

All the words have been spoken
And the prophecy fulfilled
But I just can't decide where to go
Yes, it's been quite a day
And I should go to sleep
But tomorrow I will wake up and I'll know
That I've got to begin again
Though I don't know how to start
Yes, I've got to begin again, and it's hard

Well, it's been quite a while since I lifted my head
And I'm sure the light will hurt my eyes
I see the way that I've been spendin' my days
And reality has caught me by surprise
I was dreamin' of tomorrow
So I sacrificed today
And it sure was a grand waste of time
And despite all the truth that's been thrown in my face
I just can't get you out of my mind
But I've got to begin again
Though I don't know how to start
Yes, I've got to begin again, and it's hard

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Powerful photo

by zakharijah in

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hi,.

i just stumbled upon this photo on facebook (pic by david j. m. coleman), and as they say, a picture is worth a thousand words.... .

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Before I spotted the beggar that everyone focused on it struck me that the younger witness was wearing some sort of hoody, certainly not dress I would have ever seen while witnessing and seems to be on a mobile phone.

Granted I can't see the phone and he may be reading a publication intently, but that certainly looks like someone on a phone and not interested in the public at all.

To give him credit I would have been mortified if I had to stand there with that cart.

The organisation has completely lost its way as far as I can see. They think they are the centre of God's plans but in fact are entirely irrelevant.

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President not on governing body

by incognito2014 in

been out since about 1999. i was surprised to just read that the current president (adams) is not on the governing body.

what happened there?.

obviously prior to that the president was in charge not just of the adminstration but also seemed to be heavily involved in defining doctrine.. the president seems to have really taken a back seat.. i know this must be old news, but just showed how much i am out of touch.

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Been out since about 1999. I was surprised to just read that the current President (Adams) is not on the Governing Body. What happened there?

Obviously prior to that the president was in charge not just of the adminstration but also seemed to be heavily involved in defining doctrine.

The president seems to have really taken a back seat.

I know this must be old news, but just showed how much I am out of touch. I guess it's true, "I have not been keeping up with Jehovah's chariot"

Was there a reason for this change?

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Hard time coping with shunning

by bsand20 in

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it's almost 1am and i can't sleep...again.

i hate to think the organization is still taking my sleep from me 16 years later but i can't help it.

i run a page on social media for ex jw support and advice and i'm usually there helping others but it definitely takes a toll on me when i'm having to argue and disprove jws that troll my page.

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There seems to be a pattern where family who choose not to shun have suddenly started to. I was DF'd 15 years ago and my mother spoke to me until 18 moinths ago and suddenly stopped dead. She imagines that it will make me change my mind, but like Donny it has turned me further against them and I can only see the cruel cult that is totally man made since then.

I will never return and am so angry that mother is so gullible and such a bad decision maker in her life. All she has done is reinforce my view that you will know them by their fruits.

She has wasted the best part of her life for nothing and has lived though decades of broken promises but still clings on to every word and is more fanatical and dedicated than she ever was.

I always thought even after I left that they weren't a cult and they weren't brainwashed, but I was wrong on both counts. I was balanced and could see the positives and negatives. There are no positives left to see!

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Any members here from Cornwall, UK?

by quellycatface in

completely understand if you don't want to reveal yourself.

pm if you want to.. i was in a congregation in cornwall for 4 1/2 years, you see.. .

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Yes, attended a few congregations over the last 30 odd years, stopped going about 13 years ago. Mainly mid Cornwall. My name probably gives away my feelings, don't really want to reveal myself but PM me if you wish.

Never had a PM so not sure what happens and whether I will spot it instantly. I mainly read rather then post so don't often log in so if I delay in responding to a PM please don't take it personally.

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One language in the new system

by OneEyedJoe in

so at the convention, one of the talks was about how all people will speak a single language in the new system.

my ears perked up when i heard at the outset "now, we can't be dogmatic about this" because that immediately makes me think that they're backing away from a previously dogmatic stance.

he went on to say that everyone will be speaking hebrew in the new system because "evidently" (another word that gets my ears to perk up these days) that was what was spoken before the languages were confused at bable.

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If it never rained, where did the rivers of eden come from?

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Why JWs would commit murder if ordered to by the GB

by kneehighmiah in

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psychology class is teaching me so much.

it's a core class, as i want to study medicine or biochemistry eventually.

we were assigned to read about obedience.

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Without a doubt. They only don't do it because it is illegal. If they were the ruling power they would remove their enemies without any issue, probably make you bloodguilty if you didn't kill an offendor.

Example of people killing because they feel someone has broken their religious or social rules exist today in other religions, just google honour killing for examples.

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Who is easier to indoctrinate, men or women?

by kneehighmiah in

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from purely anecdotal evidence, i believe women are more indoctrinated on average.

i can openly disagree with the governing body with men and it results in a discussion however, most women i've talked to have immediately shut me down by ending the conversation.

the only person currently shunning me is a woman.

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Women

For the same reason they fall for the nonense of psychics

"Women were also found to be twice as likely to visit a psychic than men"

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/healthnews/10509731/Harmless-fun-Horoscopes-may-be-bad-for-you-study-suggests.html

and the same reason they fall for horoscopes

"surveys show that women more often read them than men do"

http://www.susanblackmore.co.uk/Articles/Correl01.htm