My mom found 2 pictures of me getting a lapdance on my dresser. She also found some condoms and a wine bottle.
This is just my opinion, so take it for what you will. But if I'm a grown adult, living at home with my widowed mother, KNOWING how she would react to such things, there is NO WAY on earth I would leave pictures, condoms, and alcohol out where she could find them. I'd have them under lock and key somewhere FAR AWAY.
Just curious...how do the girls react when you say you're living at home with mom and you want to bring them to your room for a little romance?
Andi