Double Standards - Where is the line drawn?

by msil 55 Replies latest jw friends

  • DannyBear
    DannyBear

    Hello Larc,

    Yes, I really enjoyed those exchanges.

    Just maybe this self moderating thing will work. I hope so.

    I was thinking about how much this place is like a classroom in school(junior/high) anyway, and some college level as well.

    Remember when your teacher would leave the room? The bullies and loud mouths, would always take the floor. All hell broke loose. When the teacher reappeared all was quiet. Even the substitue teacher(appointed moderators) couldn't keep the lid on. It will be everyone's loss if Simon is required to carry a 'long ruler' of discipline here. Once the teacher exercises the penalty, he has to keep adminstering 'the rod'. That's the catch....I hope we all rise up and do the dirty work for the PROF. Iam sure that is what Simon desires.

    Nice to hear from you Larc.

    Danny

  • crossroads
    crossroads

    Simon has "butt"in, in the past why is KENT hollier than thou,
    Why is Kent allowed to say or do anything and others
    are not, Smells of a GB don't you think. Zappa was a very
    good guitarist and did a good job for freedom of speech.
    But in the end a lot of his stuff was crap and he laughed
    all the way to the bank because the faithful ate up every
    word-----This is not about free speech this was an attack
    it was no F@#king joke and I don't care if Shelby has lied
    or forgiven him. MOLESTERS must be stopped KENT
    must be stopped SIMON where are you?

  • TR
    TR

    msil,

    I don't really care since the site is not proving valuable to anyone any longer.

    Why do you think you can speak for "anyone"?

    So, we got a guy that says naughty stuff, and a woman that won't own up to her watchtoweresque slight of hand, er words. Whats worse?

    TR

    The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.
    —Edmund Burke

  • Prisca
    Prisca
    Just maybe this self moderating thing will work. I hope so.

    Today's episode of craziness from Kent is a sad example of how self-moderation does not work if there are some who refuse to co-operate with Simon's suggestions of civility towards all.

    I agree with larc, in that the time when we could talk about ourselves without fear of it being used against us has now long gone. It was a more gentle time, when encouragement and healing took place.

    These days, this DB has become a place of abuse and nastiness. I'm starting to dread logging into this site, with the thought of "now what's going on?"

    I don't like coming here anymore.

  • Prisca
    Prisca
    So, we got a guy that says naughty stuff, and a woman that won't own up to her watchtoweresque slight of hand, er words. Whats worse?

    When those "naughty words" are said in a manner designed to hurt and offend, out of nastiness and pure spite, then they certainly are far worse than a woman who says she acts and speaks with holy spirit.

    It is the intent of those words that are offensive, not just the words themselves.

  • gsark
    gsark

    When we sign up for PERMISSION (for such it is) to post on this forum..we agree to not do the following among others..

    1) Publish, post, upload, distribute or disseminate any inappropriate, profane, derogatory, defamatory, infringing, improper, obscene, indecent or unlawful topic, name, material or information.

    2) Defame, abuse, harass, stalk, threaten or otherwise violate the legal rights (such as rights of privacy and publicity) of others.

    Anyone who posts here, and then blatantly disregards these statements really could be called a LIAR! You agreed you wouldn't do it and then if you did....!!!!

    On this site, Simon has given permission for people to use more than one user name. There is no rule here against using more than one user name, so BIG DEAL.

    Being an EX-JW is not an excuse to be a blatant public liar. And there have been times when I would have loved to start cutting and pasting posts and mailing them to various individuals' business contacts. Haven't done it yet. Probably won't.

    This is your site Simon, you should do what you think is right and do what you want. I think YOU'RE doing a wonderful job.

    ...Get down off the **** cross, somebody needs the **** wood already...

  • Naeblis
    Naeblis

    Hey gsark...not sure if you got your sig from somewhere else but it sounds like Tool lyrics :) If you got it second hand the exact lyrics are

    "Come down.
    Get off your fuckin cross.
    We need the fuckin space to nail the next fool martyr."

    Yay for Tool!! :)

  • gsark
    gsark

    Got it from a fabulous movie...minus the **** part of course.

    Love the change of topic tho...thanks Naeb. Now go give Gussette and Gustianna a kiss.

  • SatanSpawn
    SatanSpawn
    And there have been times when I would have loved to start cutting and pasting posts and mailing them to various individuals' business contacts. Haven't done it yet.

    Thanks. It's always good to know who in the crowd thinks it's their calling to keep everybody else in line and punish those who don't conform. Also good to know what extremes such a person might go to in meting out punishment.

    Duly noted.

    COMF

  • MacHislopp
    MacHislopp

    Hello msil,

    good point.

    I've expressed my opinion into another similar post, but

    for this one I do agree with Prisca's words:

    "Personal insults are not a show of intelligence, rather, a show of immaturity. No matter who a person is, personal insults demoralise the one it's directed to, and those who read it.

    Whatever happened to self control?

    Whatever happened to common curtesy?"

    In few word it is basic ...education!

    Greetings , J.C.MacHislopp

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