Hi Lovelylil,
Thank you for giving a very thoughtful, well developed and interesting explanation. I have a different view, but I want to characterize how non-Trinitarian ex-JWs see the Holy Spirit today. I have an extensive level of research on the Holy Spirit. If you are interested, I will post some of my more interesting findings.
Since I have not received very many responses to my survey, perhaps I can digress and ask you a few questions in the spirit of mild debate or exchange, if you wish. Or maybe I should start a new thread in the "Beliefs" section of the board. How would you answer some or all of these questions?:
If the Holy Spirit is not a person, how then can we sin against Him?
How can the worst possible sin, the unforgivable sin, the sin against the Holy Spirit be so serious if he is not a person?
How can the Bible quote the Holy Spirit directly speaking is he is not a person?
If the Holy Spirit is not a person, how can he teach us, lead us, comfort us, guide us, and even intercede and pray for us?
How can the Holy Spirit know the mind of God if he is not a person?
Why did the earliest of Church Fathers (Ante-Nicene) believe he was a person? (Some of these early Church Fathers were the direct disciples of the Apostles John and Paul. Some were the first disciples of these direct disciples.)
Even though the Bible does not use the term "Trinity," it does not condemn it either. The term is an admitted functional term used to describe an observation. It is much like the functional term of Theocracy, which is never discussed in the Bible either. In fact, a number of Christian terms are not found in the Bible, but come to us through tradition, which the Bible does approve as Apostolic tradition.
Anyway, let me know what you think. Maybe some others will join in and express their thoughts as well. I also hope that I will get some more responses to my survey.
Thanks, Jim Whitney