Hi Lovelylil,
I have been busy all day, but I will provide a more lengthy response to your questions and comments later on today.
I do not necessarily suscribe to the exact definition of the Trinity, and I certainly do not hold it up as required for salvation. The problem with some Trinitarians, as with some non-Trinitarians (e.g. JWs), is that they make these dogmatic demands that are just not reasonable. Most Christians, including Catholics and Orthodox do not necessarily think about the Trinity that often, but they do accept it as the best way to explain what they observe in Scripture.
I am planning to relate at BRCI another definition I learned sometime back, and will quote the source once I get permission. But the definition goes something like this:
"Just as there is only ONE Humanity, with billions of members who are each fully human, likewise, there is only ONE Divinity (God), with only three members, each fully Divine (God)."
What this definition does for me is to make a paradigm shift from viewing the term "God" as just another name for a single person, to understanding God as Divinity, or a category that one belongs to or not. The above definition is the best that I have ever heard.
Also, it should come as no surprise that the Watchtower Society was not honest in its brochure, "Should You believe in the Trinity?" I have proof that they misled Jehovah's Witnesses on things that they claim the early Church Fathers said, but that they really did not say. And, the Society left out many things the early Church Fathers did say which would refute Watchtower Theology.
I am also publishing my work that is the basis of my talk at BRCI. I will likely ask Randy Watters if he will sponsor it on his web site for all to read.
Anyway, I will get back to your points and questions above, and give a response later on. Thanks for engaging me in this discussion.
Narkissos, I enjoyed your comments, so I will also look for your response to this post and what I post later on today to Lovelylil.
Thanks, Jim Whitney