Professional counselors and psychiatrists train for years with the express aim of objectifying subjective, personal experiences and interpreting them.
"Objectifying" amounts to negating the subjective side of the experience, hence the subject itself. Unfortunately that may well be what most popular psychology is about. The rest (especially psychoanalysis) treads the more difficult, more questionable, and also more interesting path of intersubjectivity (as in "interpreting").
Intersubjectivity, aka human relationship, pretty much begins where it leaves the hiding place of objectivity ("Nice day, isn't it?") and ends when it flees back to it ("That's not true, you lie, you're wrong, you're imagining things"). In between it has its own truth (the kind of truth that "begins with two," as Karl Jaspers put it). It is short-lived because most of the times we lack either the courage, or the love. Objectivity is also a subject's cowardice.