You give birth to a child, you raise that child and spend countless hours of love, concern and planning to make their world a good one. You worry about them every day and have the oddest of concerns at times of what could happen to them, knowing how much it would break your heart to lose them. Then one day they leave the cult your in, and you kick them to the curb and wish them nothing but the worst. Make sense? If it does, then your still a Witness.
Parents loss children in death, hourly and daily in this world. They wish they could have one more minute of time with them, even another second to cherish the time and not loss them. They love their children and when their heart is mature they know that despite whatever decision their child makes, they ultimate love them and want them to be in their life in some way or another. Do you think these parents, the ones who have lost their children in "real" death and not the "fake" death game the Witnesses play, would remotely rejoice or play the games a Witness does? No, for unlike the Witnesses, they are sane and if they did anything remotely like this, someone would lock them up and at least treat them for serious depression and delusional behavior.
Oh, how wonderful the Witness parent love is, and how extremely sickening and limited it really is.