I would just like to add this
I feel alot better when I do something "good" when I do it becuase it feels good and the "right" thing to do. Not because god notices.........
For instance, passing along something to help another, like the witnesses feel about preaching. The joy for my was taken out when a documention became a focus(turning in time) than when I could just do it from the heart. Feel the good feelings from it and go on. A gift is a gift. It does not need to be returned or even remembered for that matter.
so when i do something good.......I don't think anymore, so much as if it pleases God, or someone else as much as I feel like I am sharing the love I feel for another......or mankind in general.
A theist or Christian don't necessarily do good because "their God told them to do it" at first Christians must submit to the law but then the "law will set you free" because of our human sinfulness we need laws for direction and as a starting point, but as you grow in your spiritual life you will be "set free" and will do good not because it is required by the law, but because of your love towards one another.
I think when the bible talks about after the thousand year reign, when all things are handed back to God, there is no mediator, as mankind as a whole will have figured this all out.
Some people do not have the need for a law to do good. And sometimes a choice for what is considered good is relative to the time and situation at hand.
I think I am babbling. well a nicer way to put it is .......thinking outloud.
purps