What about those new NASA memory foam beds? Has anyone tried one yet? I'm thinking of getting a mattress topper made of it before investing in a full mattress.
I don't have back pain most of the time. I have had it in the past, due to an inflammation and fistula caused by lower abdominal surgery. The fistula went undiagnosed for three years. I was very ill with it during that time. My back hurt the worst low and in my pelvis/tailbone. The pain radiated up my spine, between my shoulder blades. It also radiated down my inner and back thighs. I remember being so ill from it that it was hard to get out of bed or function. One morning my caring sister in law, a guest in our home, stood outside my bedroom door and said, "My back aches, too, but I don't stay in bed and whine about it." When I discovered the fistula, she apologized to me profusely.
My pain was not from a disk injury or bone injury. I used anti-inflammatories and a heating pad or hot water bottles or soaks in a hot bath. When I had surgery to deal with the inflammation and fistula, the pain in my back soon went away.
My brother and nephew both hurt their backs at work. They are both disabled from the chronic and severe pain. It amazes me how unsympathetic people have been towards them. One of them "caught a car" as it came down on a lift. The car penned him to the garage wall. My brother slipped in grease, while holding a 60 lb box. He sat straight down on a tile floor. The impact and weight of the box causes the pelvic bones to separate from the tail bone. No one was aware of this and they didn't heal back together. So they grate against each other. I cannot imagine how painful it is.
I also had two bones "go out" in my back right before my first grandson's birth. I was to be the birthing coach. I could not sit or stand up because the weight of my body on my spine made it excrutiating. I have no idea why that happened. I come from a family full of chiropractors. I believe in it. So I went to the chiropractor everyday for two weeks and she fixed whatever was wrong. I was able to be there for the birth.
I have used mind over matter to control acute pain. I am not sure how it would work with chronic pain.