Should I just say no?

by hambeak 50 Replies latest jw friends

  • BabaYaga
    BabaYaga

    We do understand your wanting to do things for them, Dear, but we on this forum are much more concerned about YOU. As has been stated several times, you have just been through a hellish health struggle... why aren't they making Sunday dinner for you? Sorry if we sound like we are fussing at you, we're on your side.

    All the best,
    Baba

  • juni
    juni

    Can Jake cook? If not, he could help in other ways like cleaning up after you prepare the meal and then at his folks' house.

    Well that's my opinion - just seems that Jake would understand you need a break.

    So that is how you spend your 1 day off a week? That would get old. Man I feel for you.

    I better not say anymore hon 'cause I might regret it.

    Juni

  • Sunspot
    Sunspot

    Hammy.........

    No-no-no-no-no-no-no-no-no-no-no-no-no-no and NO!!!!!! You do NOT owe this jerk ANYTHING and you should NOT be made to feel as if you DO!!!!!!

    This has gone WAAAAY beyond ridiculous---what with all you have been through yourself, physically and emotionally of late. It would be ONE thing if you wanted to do something nice for someone for Thanksgiving (belated or otherwise) but to be EXPECTED TO go to these lengths to please a JJERK who doesn't deserve it OR who will ever appreciate it-----I say NO--absolutely NO way!

    I will make a tv dinner and they can freeze it and eat I am so NOT doing anything for that low life loser.

    THERE ya GO!! THIS sounds like MORE than a great solution to ME!

    hugs,

    Annie

  • Sparkplug
    Sparkplug
    I am getting older myself.

    OH PLEASE! Why do all the sexy men have a partner named Jake? You need to get over that! And That is why I laugh lightly with you at this problem you seem as you are the kind of person who is determined and you know the outcome already. But venting? This is good. It gets us thru the things we must do. You are by no means old, and I know your day already sucks in your mind. But when this day is done I am sure with whatever you do, you will remember the day for a long time because no matter where or what you and Mr. Sexy Jake himself...spent the day together.

    And again tell Jake I so wish I could be a fly in his carry on to go sign the CD thang. I am so green. To be a photographer of that. So may I take you and Jakes picture when I get up and better? Please? Just for fun for me. Not a job thingi? Just to do?

    Two sexy sexies in the same pic? Well I want to capture that!

  • hambeak
    hambeak

    Decki you got me laughing again I needed that I just have to clean the diet soda off of my computer screen. Yes I would like for you to take our picture but it bust your camera. LOL

    I told Jake you were a professional photographer and his son is a big wig attorney in SF and represents many well known artists and maybe He may hire you to do some photography work as Yano has offices in London, Madrid, Bejing, LA, and SF. Sony is one of his clients.

  • Sparkplug
    Sparkplug

    Decki you got me laughing again I needed that I just have to clean the diet soda off of my computer screen. Yes I would like for you to take our picture but it bust your camera. LOL

    I told Jake you were a professional photographer and his son is a big wig attorney in SF and represents many well known artists and maybe He may hire you to do some photography work as Yano has offices in London, Madrid, Bejing, LA, and SF. Sony is one of his clients.

    WELL Spank ME!! Hard!! My head just hit the floor and I ned mouth to mouth. Would that not be the bomb! Oh, but I am too kewl to get all squirrley...yeah right!

    Give me a few weeks to rid myself of this screaming uterus and you and Jake are so at my discretion. Oh I am having a Betty Davis voice and eyeball moment. Purrr. I cannot wait!!

    Oh, Oh I am so excited about doing your shots. Then next, well Mr Sony will only dream of having a shot like Mr. Jake and yours. hehe

  • vitty
    vitty

    Surely you shouldnt be doing this ?

    Arent you recovering from a serious illness?.......................put your foot down and your oven mitts and say NO

  • FreeChick
    FreeChick

    Hambeak,

    You are such a sweetie. Just say no...you deserve better.

    FreeChick

  • Stealth453
    Stealth453

    Lace the turkey with Jack Daniels and ask him to zip out for a six-pack. Then call the cops. That should get him out of your hair for a few more years. hehe Just kidding.

  • Rabbit
    Rabbit

    Hambeak,

    The turkey TV dinner should be the cheapest way out, but, if you want more suggestions:

    Wrap up the turkey 'leavins', ya' know... back bone, gizzards and let him de-bone (for himself) what you don't want. AND an empty bottle of beer (a not-so-subtle-message)

    Or,

    Direct him to the nearest Salvation Army or other homeless mission for a meal.

    Rabbit's droppings. . .. .

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