by hambeak 50 Replies latest jw friends
Hammy,
I just got caught up with this thread. I have half a mind (and that's all) to come down there and kick someone's arse for putting you in this postition!! Take care of you and Jake!! Is know there are alot of free meals for T-day in your area!!!!!!!
I have not read all the posts......
but I would not do anything, but IF I just had to .....it would be a Swanson turkey and dressing microwave dish.
I know you think I am joking, but I am not.
purps
Hi, if you cook a nice dinner every SUnday for the parents, and don't resent it that much, just do the same one you would normally do and be a nice human(like usual) on that Sunday. The man has got to eat, and you are not being an enabler by feeding the family. You are are the same sweetie you always are. I hope the partner contributes to the dinner prep! Tell the bro to set the darn table. You don't need to go any more out of your way than you normally do(which seems like plenty already!)for this guy. Or anyone that is not your obligation. I am married and I would not support that kind of thing in a relative I loved. If you miss thanksgiving cause you are in prison, well that is one of the consequences of his actions, just like the last year and a half and the legal bills I hope he is paying till he's dead. You are not responsible for HIS consequences.
Swanson's TV Dinner anyone?
carmel
Well I was on the phone last night for a while and after all her screaming and crying I will cook the damn dinner and try to make everyone peacable. Next year I will take a vacation and go somewhere other than their house.
Ah Hambeak- I was all for you helping if you felt you needed to, but now when you said this...
after all her screaming and crying
I am thinking that something other than the turkey needs stuffed and it is not you my love.
Morning handsome!
Hey Good Morning Decki!
I am just in a poor mood today The corporate Franchise office called and their rep will be here today. He just gets under foot and doesn't know a screw driver from a ratchet. I am just having a great week. As the old commercial said CALGON TAKE ME AWAY LOL I will make it somehow.
(((Hambeak))) Breathe in and breathe out...
I second Scully's post
You have went above and beyond taking care of inlaws. Mommy dearest needs to prepare the celebration meal!
You oughtta come over and get in our jacuzzi...we have the wine (You deserve to de-stress)
Codeblue
Oh Ham~ You need to put on Jakes blues and just sway. His music is not in a hurry as I mentioned and it would calm a hambeak out of a mood.
why should you have to be involved? I would say that you are
busy that night, or that you really don't have the energy to cook another huge meal. my partners sister call me to go hang out with there aging alcoholic father, and I'm like why don't you get off of it and go see him yourself? Sometimes when you are a nice person you give an inch and they want a mile.
