if given a choice I would much rather been raised a Mormon than JW, at least their kids can celebrate Christmas, play school sports, plan for college, and Im sure the list goes on and on.
I knew some Mormons growing up and while they had some of the same grooming issues us JW kids had (no long hair for guys, no short skirts for girls, etc) and were morally uptight like us, they did play school sports, joined after school clubs, went to and participated in the pep rallies and went to school dances and proms. And they were encouraged, not just allowed to go, but encouraged to go to college.
Later in life, I got to know some more Mormons and learned a little more about, not so much the religious beliefs, but the everyday life of a Mormon. The Mormon philosophy is pro-family and the church has programs for making sure the youth are attended to, not just in doctrinal issues, but in recreational and support issues. I was impressed at how close knit their community was compared to a JW congregational community.
The darker side of all that community life is that it indoctrinates their youth into their culture more deeply than just going to 5 meetings a week and knocking on doors on weekends. Its no wonder why JWs can't keep young ones in...they do nothing for them except guilt them into going to meetings and service. There are no programs for the youth. I'm a little surprised that the WTS hasn't figured this out and instituted some programs (all a front, of course) to "help" the youth (while at the same time praising themselves at how Jehovah loves children and is using the WTS to train them )