A Letter from a disfellowshipped JW

by reneeisorym 69 Replies latest jw friends

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  seek2find

  Renee, I would have been tempted to say something like this. " You think I'm a little fat and I think you're a lot Weird and like you said, I can always loose the weight" seek2find
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  Good Girl or Bad Girl?

  Renee! Your response was so good. You never deserve to hear something like that from anybody! What a jerk!

  PS I have seen pictures of you (on MySpace) and you are NOT FAT. For the record. This guy is definitely JW elder material. What a prick.
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  GetBusyLiving

  What the heck does "getting porked" mean?

  I think he means that her and her worldling boyfriend having sex is "getting porked for Satan".

  GBL
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  JWdaughter

  PLEASE don't send him here. I would prefer to deal with a rabid JW that has a couple of brain cells to rub together-and some manners. What a twit. I am sorry but throughout his entire letter all I could think was that he obviously feels terribly inadequate as a human being. What a sad little man (probably literally!) And mentioning your size! OY. That man deserves to marry a virginal JW woman who thinks she needs to save it for the new system!

  Renee, you already know this, but you are one of the most beautiful people on the board, and that won't change whether you gain or lose weight. And I don't just mean the inside-outside too. You are a lovely girl and are SO LUCKY to be away from the small minded ugly people who-YES-deserve to be in the kingdom hall (some don't! He does!)I was reading that letter and just gasping with indignation on behalf of the world that has to breathe the same air as that person. Some people can obey the law and take showers and they are still vile.
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  lisavegas420

  oooooo....what a freak. I'm glad you got him out of your life with a quickness.

  I say let the JW's keep that one.

  lisa
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  truthsearcher

  Rennee: I'm sorry that this upsetting letter had to come your way, but remember that the Pharisees and teachers of the law had Jesus performing miracles and fulfilling prophecies right in front of their eyes. The response of the majority: they attributed his power to Satan, rejected him as Messiah and arranged for his murder based on false testimony...Talk about being deceived!

  This spiritual blindness still exists 2000 years later. This letter you received is a testimony to this fact. Know this fact, deep down in your heart, that if John's eyes were to be opened he would be horrified by what he wrote. Don't take it personally and continue to pray for him! You just never know if one day he will wake up and realize the truth.

  TS
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  reneeisorym

  My quick reply before I posted this letter on this board and what he just sent me.

  Think carefully before making any decisions. You are an attractive girl. OK A little fat. But that is within your control to change. It only requires a strong will. Eat less and exercise. I lost 70 LBS once I stopped making excuses. It also raised my self esteem in that regard when I accomplished my goal.

  Don't ever speak to me again. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- His Reply: WOW, YOU FOUND WHAT YOU WERE LOOKING FOR. A WAY OUT. BUT YOU ALWAYS FORGET HALF THE THINGS YOU TOLD ME. OK. BUT DON'T PRETEND YOU DID NOT TELL ME YOU WERE FAT BEFORE I WENT TO PA TO MEET YOU. BUT I GUESS IT IS A GOOD EXCUSE AND YOU CAN USE IT TO USE TO STOP TALKING TO ME AND THEREFORE LOCK YOURSELF IN COMPLETE DARKNESS AND PERMANENT DENIAL UNTIL THAT DAY COMES. IT IS A SHAME. I CAN SEE IT NOW. RENEEE THINKING SHE WILL WEAR A CROWN OF GLORY WITH JESUS AND FLY UP TO HEAVEN AND FIX THINGS WITH JESUS. THEN THAT DAY COMES. HE (JESUS) SAYS "GET AWAY FROM ME, I DON'T KNOW YOU" SHE CRIES IN TORMENT AND IN JUST A SHORT TIME, SHE TURNS TO DUST. AFTER THE BIRDS OF HEAVEN HAVE FIRST GORGED THEMSELVES OF COURSE. WHAT A SHAME. BUT THE HEART IS A RUTHLESS ORGAN. AND THE ENTIRE SOUL OF THE SINNING GIRL IS WEAK. SUCH MODELS WILL BE DONE AWAY WITH. FOREVER. THERE WILL BE WHERE THEIR WEEPING AND GNASHING OF TEETH SHALL BE. I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU THIS WAY. FOR AS LONG AS POSSIBLE UNTIL EVENTUALLY, THE MEMORY OF YOU WILL NO LONGER BE CALLED TO MIND. GOOD-BYE RENEE-NOW YOU ARE FREE TO MARRY. BUT DON'T PRETEND YOU LOVE HIM. YOU cannot LIE TO ME. WHAT YOU SAID TO ME IN PA MADE IT CLEAR THAT YOU DON'T. BUT IT IS AN EASY WAY OUT. IS IT NOT? HEY, BE HAPPY FOR ME. I HAVE BEEN CELIBATE FOR 4 YEARS NOW. NEVER MARRIED. STOPPED SMOKING. CLEAN, PERFECTLY HEALTHY AND WITHOUT PERVERSIONS. REPAIRED AND IMPROVED MY HOME AND NOW GETTING READY FOR THE FUTURE. I AM PRETTY CONFIDENT THAT JESUS LOVES ME AND IS PROUD. BUT I MUST KEEP IT UP. THEN I WILL GO BACK TO JW'S. WHEN I AM FIT TO DO SO OF COURSE. BUT I AM TAKING POSITIVE STEPS. THAT IS IMPORTANT. YOU TAKE CARE. I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU NOW. AND YES, YOU ARE A LITTLE FAT. SO WHAT? YOU DON'T KNOW? NOW YOU FORGET YOU TOLD ME AND THINK I INSULT YOU NOW? BUT LIKE I SAID. IT WAS WHAT YOU WERE LOOKING FOR. USE IT FULLY. GOOD FOR YOU. I PURPOSLY GAVE THIS OUT TO YOU. BE THANKFUL. HEY, DON'T FORGET. IT WAS MY HONESTY WHICH ATTRACTED YOU TO ME IN THE FIRST PLACE.
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  reneeisorym

  For the record: I never told him I was fat. Who does that? He asked me what I looked like so he could recognize me and I don't remember what I said but I can assure you that I didn't say, "I have blonde hair, hazel eyes, and I'm fat"...
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  greendawn

  How long had he been with the JWs? How long has he been out? It usually takes a long time to work through all the deception and programming and this guy obviously hasn't moved very far since leaving the JWs he is still trapped deeply in their ideology. He still thinks they are God's chosen people which they clearly are not, they can't even get their basic doctrines right and they keep changing them.
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  GetBusyLiving

  IT WAS MY HONESTY WHICH ATTRACTED YOU TO ME IN THE FIRST PLACE.

  Were you internet dating this guy or something?

  BUT YOU ALWAYS FORGET HALF THE THINGS YOU TOLD ME.

  What is he refering to?

  GBL