by Junction-Guy 54 Replies latest jw friends
(((((JunctionGuy)))))
As you begin to tell your story and get the support you need, you will discover how much of a burden it was to keep it inside.
And I want you to remember one thing.
You had the strength to carry this secret for years. Which means you have the strength to deal with it openly and honestly.
Lee
Thanks Lady Lee, yes I have been hiding my childhood for years, and have been supressing the anger with it.
But remember what I said in an earlier post, when life hands you lemons, you make lemonade. Im gonna start making leomade.
"I'm pretty sure I am actually just an equal opportunities kind of gal not restricted by age, gender, colour, class or sexual orientation."
I prefer the term "pansexual" ala "Jack Harkness" from the new Doctor Who/Torchwood series.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pansexuality
tall penguin
Dave, I hope you're well and it's great seeing you take your life back. Be patient. There's no Armageddon looming over your head now.
Best,
Bryan
I was to headstrong. And I had my faults as well. I liked to spend to much money, I didn't keep house like you wanted. Matter of fact I hate cleaning worse than anything.
You and me both Amanda! LOL! Okay I don;t hate hate cleaning - but I do hate tidying up after other people - stresses me out, turns me into a bitch! You are such a great gal to be so kind and supportive.
Junction - I'm glad my comments still interest and entertain. Now get yourself some dinner - or get round here for a pot roast!
Tall Penguin - I like the word - thanks for the expansion to my vocabulary. I missed the torchwood series - it sure got to canada fast! Would you recommend it?
"I missed the torchwood series - it sure got to canada fast! Would you recommend it?"
It actually hasn't reached here yet I don't think. My bf downloads them. :) And yup, I think it's great fun. Jack Harkness is an ultra cool character, in oh so many ways.
tall penguin
Thanks for your willingness to share your life with us. Remember once you put voice to what happened to you, it no longer has control of you. You have control of it. It doesn't matter what your sexual orientation is, we are here for you. Looking forward to reading about your life. Take care of yourself!
Leslie
Oh my god Dave!..What if you are Gay?..You`ll have to wear a pink cowboyhat and ride a horse with a lisp..LOL!!..You`ve got more announcements before the big announcement than the WBT$..I`m glad you got that off your chest,hopefully it gets us closer to your announcement..LOL!!...OUTLAW
amanda is great ! what a blessing to have her be supportive of you during this time. i'm glad you're able to come to terms and are able to sort thru your confusion.. hugs dave!
It's not that I am great. It is what I believe in. I wasn't the only one hurting in our marriage And I knew it I just couldn't get him to open up to me. It took me leaving for this to happen. Yes I kept to myself alot of times on here. But that was because This was his life, not mine. I think it takes a strong woman to live the way we did for the past 12 years I am just sorry I wasn't strong enough to fight for what was mine. I would have walked through fire and hell for Dave several years ago. And sometimes I felt like I did.
Amanda
