Hello Wafe,
I too am relatively new to posting on JWD. I threw my perspective of the board together for another poster, one in fact that you may sympathize with, he goes by the alias Mad:
Hello Mad, This discussion forum constitutes a support group for the thousands of publishers that have suffered in one way or another due to the antics of the self-appointed Governing Body of Jehovah's Witnesses. Some here were disfellowshipped, some disassociated themselves. Yet others simply walked away because they felt they couldn't stay for one second more. Others prefer a slow fade. Some who read or lurk here are currently elders, ministerial servants, pioneers, Bethelites, etc. Some may lead an immoral lifestyle according to your personal standards, others are more morally fastidious than many JWs. Some are atheists, others agnostics, many non-denominational Christians, and quite a few undecided in matters of faith. I'm sure I'm leaving out quite a few.If you like spending time here with this fascinating group of courageous individuals you're very welcome to do so.
Love and respect,
Nvr
I offer two thoughts on why you may have difficulty with certains situations related to the board.
1. Perhaps it would be advantageous to read for a considerable time before opting to post. I did that for 2+ years. Once I did post I already had a sense, albeit vague, of the unique and varied backgrounds and beliefs, and beliefs are in a constant state of flux whether one admits it or not, that are here to be found.
2. It's important for successful interaction on this board, and in all aspects of life really, to understand and appreciate that people employ very different communication styles. Some soften their words, some are more direct, some show great consideration for the feelings of others, and yet others have already burned-out and simply may not have the emotional energy for niceties. We can, each and every one of us, learn something about humanity from all who express themselves here on JWD. The same goes for differing senses of humour. The safest bet, for your own mental peace, is to take even sarcastic remarks as being well- intentioned and good-natured.
Sincerely wishing you all the best as you pick up the pieces,
Nvr