The wanderer
You seem to miss the difference between educated people claiming the paranormal exists and evidence that concludes such exists.
They are two entirely different things. The first means precisely nothing, the second does not exist; there is no proof of the paranormal.
If there were, it wouldn't be paranormal or supernatural, would it?
Paranormal and supernatural claims are by definition unproved.
Qcmbr
The non-believer therefore also suffers in the attempt to disprove the issue because the lack of repeatable control is not in itself what faith promises so is not in itself a proof against (the statistical uselessness of prayer will not convince the believer who has had a divine experience while in prayer.)
This is correct from a belivers viewpoint. A materialist would not see this as suffering, as being asked to disprove something which is not proved is a logical absurdity.
Now the one thing that can be attacked successfully (written dogma) results in the proliferation of faith not its nullification. Exposing fallacy and nailing it to the door of the church doesn't destroy the church it merely births new interpretations of faith (creationism has few 6 day advocates but plenty of IDers). The very proof required to destroy religion would in and of itself prove it (i.e. to logically and scientifically destroy God you'd need to find him first and prove he was a charlatan.) Hence the battle continues both sides hampered by a lack of testable evidence one ending up with faith in a higher power and the other with faith in the intellectual fitness of mankind.
Good point; I would add that in belief strutures which do not reply upon repeatable phenomena there exists a latitude or impreciseness that lends such belief structures to schism. Look at 'Life of Brian'; there are five schisms in the group that start following Brian within five minutes of the crowd first deciding he is a prophet.
There is no measurable difference between divine revelation and making it up as you go along.
But the 'one thing that can be attacked successfully' bit is again from a belivers viewpoint, which is a diferent paradigm to that used by materialists. Atheists are NOT hampered by 'a lack of testable evidence', as such a condition infers something is unproved. After yay many millenia it is reasonable to conclude lack of testable evidence for god means there IS no evidence for god, not that we haven't found it yet.
I want the real answer to the inherant atheism that is within us all - real concrete proof that does not rely on special pleading and the light falling a certain way.
Good.