What would you do???

by Es 36 Replies latest jw friends

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  Es

  Sparkplug- thanks babe I value your opinion alot

  rebel 8- thanks so much, I cant understand how people can do that its horrible, I have decided well and truly not to go to the wedding I know myself and I would cause a scene and I dont want that for her or myself. Heheh loved the idea about the etiquette book, I was saying to hubby its a catch 22 I feel by sending her a present Im justifying her behaviour get me??

  OFC- hello hun long time no see how are you? I think its too late on my behalf ive been dealing with this for over a year and its not gotten better, funny thing is we have a little group of Mikes friends and the other two wives are pregnant or trying so she is going to have to deal with it sooner of later or loose all our friendships

  Juni- you right she is a dark cloud, her friendship used to be important, but friendship is a two way street, she is obvioulsy comfortable sending msgs asking me stuff about her wedding but not comfortable telling me im no longer needed.

  dobbie- Oh thanks babe, i appreciate your friendship, I really need it now. I thought it would be ok its no suprise I wasnt in the bridal party but it still hit me harder than expected

  Luv ya all

  es
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  dobbie

  your'e welcome Es, its bound to have hit you hard, you were close friends, it made me think of how hard it hit me being shunned and losing my best mate, although i knew it would happen. Just remember you can always pm me or email me if you want to ok hun? I'm off to bed now its past 1am -oops! take care Debbiex
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  Es

  thanks hun and ditto :) sleep well

  luv es
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  Scully

  I could tell you a million stories about this girl,she really is messed up, she asked me once if I survived ok on the pension when first hubby left me with a child, coz she wanted to know if they had a child and broke up if she could afford it all....I was a bit suprised people dont generally ask that kind of thing and if she is already thinking stuff like that then she shouldnt be bringing a child into the world in that relationship.

  This could be part of the reason why she's avoiding you.... you know information about her that she might be terrified of being exposed.

  Maybe she's really trying to get her life in what she feels is better order these days, and she feels awkward that you know things about her that nobody else knows - she's probably got this "house of cards" built up in her mind regarding her new life and is afraid that something from her past will come back to haunt her if she keeps the friendship with you going. If that's the case, you're probably better off without her in your life, Es. You seem to me to be a terrific person and an amazing friend. It's too bad we're on opposite sides of the globe, because I'd love to go to lunch or the movies with you!

  Hugs, Scully
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  Es

  Thanks hun, ditto it would be pretty amazing to be able to meet you.

  es
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  orangefatcat

  Hi Es again, hope your having a g'day.

  you are a cool kitten in my book babe and I agree with person who mentioned you have alot of other friends to hang out with. Your friend is not worth all that worry. If she wishes to come around then that is good but if not I know ya and ya have a great personality so whatever may be will be.

  but don't let it eat you up as they say. Life is short as it is and enjoy it to the fullest.

  love ya sweetie

  Terry OFC
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  Es

  Thanks gorgeous, and so are you, I value our friendship alot... I have missed ya heaps.

  Your right its time to move on and not let it bother me.

  luv ya es