by bluesapphire 91 Replies latest jw friends
Greendawn said...."she was a loyal JW".....no she wasn't.
And keeping it to a whisper, only keeps what God hates, ongoing. Plus what happens when people find out you knew, and didn't say anything all along? They'll think you didn't have much of a problem with what she has done, and that you didn't let people know sooner - so they'll come down on you.
In some way, you have to shout it out under the table, so all the attention goes on her bad ways, and snowballs for her. Good luck with it!
Ty, I feel you, dude!
Some days I want to call up my sister and just blurt it all out. But all in it's own good time is best. My sister will come out from Idaho this summer. She already told me she needed to talk to me. I know what she wants. She wants me to take a position: either FOR or AGAINST the Jduds. She cannot stand it that I AM GETTING AWAY WITH FADING.
At that time, I will let her know exactly how "stumbled" I have been. I will tell her that I had no idea that I was supposed to address this when I was a study. And I will tell her that it bothered me for all these years...
Someone mentioned that this sister may have been molested as a child. I happen to know that she was molested. But does that excuse her for being a hypocrite. Everyone has issues, but sitting all high up in a judgement seat and pointing the finger at everyone else, knowing your own wrongdoing, well THAT is inexcusable. I don't care if every uncle she had took a chain on her. She's still a hypocrite!
Moshe, care to ellaborate? Send me a PM if you want.
There ARE two witnesses: The sister and the brother. BOTH have told me the same story of what they did. The sister didn't tell me about how many times it happened though. But the brother spilled the entire bag of beans.
Hey . . . her description seems familiar. If she's got $100 million or so, I might be the father of her kid!
I happen to know that she was molested.
But does that excuse her for being a hypocrite.
What she needs is "help." In her world, help comes from the elders in the congregation. Exposing her
"sin" will lead to her purging her conscience of the terrible past she has (in hopes of gaining mercy from
the elders). No fault to you for helping that along. It's what her religion teaches her to do.
Your plan to talk about " exactly how "stumbled" you have been."
I like that very much. Sounds well considered, with no malicious intent.
I can't tell you how amazingly silacious this story is. This is like a TV movie of the week for ex-jws. I would go with Moshe's suggestion of writing the letter. I would try to even talk to her again just to see how it effected her. And you've got to find out those things that she did to him that he now can't live without... maybe I'm missing out on something
Hello. I posted earlier. It was normal stuff that normal unbrainwashed people do: BJ, hand-j, etc. But his good little JW wifey doesn't do that.
Her first name is Tracey and we're from Southern California. Do you think you know her?
Her first name is Tracey and we're from Southern California. Do you think you know her?
Well, I'm in Southern California too . . . but my post above was in jest.
Given your characterization of her as having a voracious sexual appetite and little in the way of inhibitions, I'd bet there are a lot of guys who would like to know her!
