Hey Jeff, it could have been me starting this thread. I feel very much the same way.
I really needed and wanted all kinds of support and information when I DA'd, but now, I feel I just want to move on. I really, really enjoy reading posts from many of the people here, but this place is a constant reminder of where I've been in life - not where I'm going. How do we balance being here for and helping those who have just left or are leaving the borg against our own personal growth? That is a tricky one to me. There is a need to help those who need it, but the torch should be passed at some point. I don't want to be the guy who "checks up on the jws" in five years, or heaven forbid ten or 15 years from now. Good grief, we need to put it behind us at some point and take control of our lives and actually live for a change. I can now go days without even thinking about jws. That's what I want. WHY would I, as one poster is doing, 15 years from leaving the borg, want to be reminded constantly of the cult? That last comment is sure to piss off some people, and it isn't meant that way. Everybody's experience with the jws was different amd although I was in for a very long time, I don't have family still in. There isn't anything or anyone holding me to the jws. For those with family in it would be different.
Like you, I have been feeling that the board is more like an addiction than something that is actually helping me at the moment. I realized that, although I really like the folks here, it is mostly all just cyber relationships (apostafests and the assorted personal meetups not withstanding). I decided that I really needed to put forth the effort to make some actual, real life, real world friends that I could spend time with instead of fretting over how fast I could keep up with the dang active topics button so I wouldn't miss a thread here. There is now a group of us guys from school that - gasp - ya know, go grab lunch and stuff. The kind of friends we didn't have in the borg (ie, they aren't fake). And it has been great. Other than my wife I havn't had a real friend in 14 years or so until recently.
So ya, as to your thread title, I don't think you're bored. I think you are progressing in a good and positive way by not needing jwd as much.