Do your burial wishes reflect your inner most beliefs?

by Gregor 37 Replies latest jw friends

  • Scully
    Scully

    I'm an atheist.

    Hopefully, when it's time for me to die, there will still be parts of me that will be useful. I'd like to donate my corneas, my heart, my lungs, liver and kidneys to others who can use them.

    After all that's done, they can cremate what's left. I haven't found the place yet where I'd like to have my ashes sprinkled, but maybe I'll set aside $500 or so and have them launched into space.

    The Search for Scotty's Ashes by Josh Grossberg

    Call it Star Trek 11: The Hunt for Scotty's Remains.

    A rocket that blasted into suborbital space two weeks ago from a remote area in New Mexico containing ashes of late Star Trek star James Doohan has fallen back to Earth and landed in a mountainous region of the state that's made it difficult to recover, according to a spokeswoman for the company that organized the launch.

    Houston-based Space Services, which specializes in "memorial flights" for those wanting to send their cremated remains or those of a loved one to the final frontier, confirmed that the capsule that was launched on Apr. 28 did indeed reach its altitude goal of 72.7 miles above Earth—the point where the atmosphere ends and space begins.

    However, after descending by parachute, the 20-foot module came to rest on a rocky hillside in some extremely thick vegetation, posing a problem for searchers despite containing four homing beacons transmitting its location.

    "It's not like Mr. Doohan's lost," company rep Susan Schonfeld told E! Online. "The rocket did hit its landing target, but it's in a very mountainous and rugged terrain. [The recovery team] can't get to it by foot or by vehicle. They have to take a helicopter up there."

    Making things worse, the desert region has been hit with "horrendous" weather lately, including torrential downpours, according to Schonfeld.

    "They know the general location, and we have twentysomething days to recover the rocket," she said.

    Along with a portion of Doohan's ashes, the payload carried the remains of some 200 other people, including one of the original Mercury Seven astronauts, L. Gordon Cooper, along with various experiments.

    The Canadian-born Doohan, of course, was famous for playing Montgomery "Scotty" Scott, the diligent engineer and miracle worker aboard the U.S.S. Enterprise on the 1966-69 original classic TV series and seven Trek films, beaming Captain Kirk and crew all over the universe. He died in 2005 at the age of 85 after battling pneumonia and Alzheimer's disease.

    Space Services offers three different types of memorial space missions—an Earth Rise Service, which is the flight Doohan's family chose, costs about $495 and launches a symbolic portion of one's ashes to a zero-gravity environment. The module returns to earth where the sealed remains are recovered and given back to the family.

    Other trips include Earth Orbit Surface, which puts the remains into orbit; Luna Service, which does the same but in lunar orbit; or Voyager Service, the first mission of which doesn't launch until 2009 but boldly aims to send ashes into deep space.

    The same company rocketed Star Trek creator Gene Roddenberry's remains into space back in 1997. And plans are underway to blast more ashes of Doohan and Cooper back into space in October, this time aboard an orbital craft.

    • Copyright 2007 E! Entertainment Television, Inc. All rights reserved.
  • darth frosty
    darth frosty

    I have always agreed with the klingon philosophy, "it is an empty vessel dispose of it as you would any other piece of trash."

  • LtCmd.Lore
    LtCmd.Lore

    I've heard atheists say that under no circumstances would they want to be cremated.

    Well I'm an atheist and I couldn't care less what you do to my dead body.

    Cremate it, donate it to science, bury it, eat it*, put robotic bones and muscles in it and make it do a little dance. Whatever.

    *Seriously, I don't care. But please be carefull: By the time I die I intend to have a LOT of cyborg implants that you may choke on..

    Lore

  • MsMcDucket
    MsMcDucket
    I've heard atheists say that under no circumstances would they want to be cremated. That, to me, is inconsistent with their proclaimed viewpoint.

    I want to be cremated. I want the lowest costing funeral possible! I've told my husband just to have a memorial type service (viewing of the body). I don't want no preaching at my funeral! I think a nice touch would be to play all the music that I loved in the background! Well, at least, some of the songs cause I got a wide and varied range of music that I love. I think my husband and my oldest daughter would know what to play.

    If anyone wanted to get up and say a word or two, I wouldn't be against that. I don't want a long funeral progression to the graveyard. I think in Kansas you have to bury the ashes in some type of urn. I told my husband he could put my ashes in an old coffee can for all I cared!

    I don't want all of the hype! And I, fairly, agnostic, so I don't know where in the world or universe that I'm going. I just know that I didn't want the bugs eating on my corpse!

    I told my husband that he should put this joke on my headstone "She always said that her girdle was killing her!"

  • Warlock
    Warlock

    Yeah, that's why I don't have any burial wishes.

    Warlock

  • MsMcDucket
    MsMcDucket

    Hopefully, when it's time for me to die, there will still be parts of me that will be useful. I'd like to donate my corneas, my heart, my lungs, liver and kidneys to others who can use them.

    I'm got donor on my driver's license too. It just kind of scares me. . . reminds me of the movie "Coma" and some show about rich people having people, that matched their organ status, killed. Like LtComodore (sp?) said it would be interesting to donate my body to science. Let the up and coming doctors dissect me for learning purposes.

  • Clam
    Clam

    I believe that when my body expires it simply becomes a carcass for disposal. I'd like to donate the parts of my body that may be useful to others. I'd then like the remains to be cremated and the ashes scattered on the JWD forum, preferably in the Best Of Section.

    I'm a spiritualist by the way.

    Clam

  • Brigid
    Brigid

    There is a place in Tennessee, I believe, where scientists are experimenting with bodies, just laid out in the open, decomposing naturally (they are using the observations they make to advance forensic science). This is the way I'd like my body, when I am finished with it, to be "disposed" of~going back into and being recycled naturally. That goes along fairly well with my "belief system". Going back to nature to be recycled by Goddess into the eternal scheme of things. All the while, being of some use as scientists observe and use the knowledge to advance the human race in some small way. The only problem is that this experimental burial ground is not on my native soil, so this is an impossibility. For my body must be buried and go back into my native, Texas soil.

    I'd like my remains to become part of a Parker County peach tree (for there is none better, or sweeter on this good earth). I'd like to be part of the sweet, succulent fruit that someone bites delightedly into as juice drips slyly down the chin. I'd smile from beyond to know that somehow I still brought corporeal pleasure.

    I've thought about donating my body to science when I no longer have use for it. Or the guys at "body works".

    Great thread, Gregor!!

    Love and Light

    ~Brigid

  • rebel8
    rebel8

    "I've heard atheists say that under no circumstances would they want to be cremated."

    My theory on that is that most human beings cannot be 100% psychologically ok with the concept of death, so it's easier to think of oneself as having an intact body rather than being "completely gone". I'm sure there is a religious upbringing component mixed in there for many people too.

    My beliefs totally match my final wishes and I have put them in a legal document to encourage people to follow my wishes.

    I want to donate all my organs that are useful. I do not want my body donated to medical research because I've personally seen what they do with the bodies--things such as displaying slices of your brain and eyeballs between glass in a hospital hallway. No thanks--I don't want to be remembered that way. I don't even leave the house w/o makeup; why would I want people to see a gray slice of my eyeball? [ha-just read Brigid's post--Brigid, you're a better person than me. I still want to be vain, even in death! ;) ]

    I want to be cremated and mixed with my husband's ashes, then spread in a tropical/hot climate far away from sucky New York State and my cultish childhood.

    I have put in my will provisions that certain people not be allowed to attend--specifically several of my jw relatives who were physically abusive to me.

    I also don't wish for people to throw a big event of any kind. To be honest, many of my relatives are toxic nutcases and I have few true friends. I see no reason to give them an opportunity to act as though they have lost an important person in their lives. If they don't love me when I'm alive I see no reason to put on airs when I'm dead.

  • nvrgnbk
    nvrgnbk

    Good point Scully.

    After my organs are harvested, you can burn my ass in the backyard and proceed according to my instructions.

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