crumpet,
For your eyes, I HIGHLY recommend blinc mascara (kiss me mascara) and eye products. They are waterproof in that they won't run or ooze if you cry or go swimming, but when you want to take it off, you just get it wet and slide it off between your two fingers. It creates little tubes around each individual lash instead of gooping them. It won't leave dark circles by staining the skin under your eyes when you wash it off, (which by the way ladies is where a lot of women's dark circles come from). Even if you sleep in it you won't wake up to racoon eyes, just maybe a few flakes here and there. I won't live without it!!!!
As far as the makeup goes, I personally only use the minerals. Like other women have said here, it is so easy to use and looks and feels like you're not wearing any. My personal favorite is Jane Iredale. I usually only use the powder foundation, my eyliner, and my mascara. Eye shadows I have to be in the mood for. I like my lips natural. I hate the feel of lipstick, but sometimes I will wear a sheer gloss. (I have about fifty of them all only about one shade apart but hardly ever use them).
Whatever you do, NEVER remove your eye makeup with an oil based product. It will carry the pigment and deposit it in the delicate skin under your eye, creating dark circles!!!!
jelcat