Open Discussions About The Para normal
Several times threads would feature a particular discussion about the paranormal.
In the past, discussions featured ghosts, unidentified flying objects, Ouija boards,
and other similar topics which correlate to the paranormal.
Some Individuals Are “Put Off” With The Subject
On several occasions, it could not be helped but to notice that individuals who
were having these discussions were often heckled, insulted or criticized by those
who were somehow “put off” or offended by the discussion.
Why?
If an individual is confident and convinced that, his is the “right path”, then why do
they feel a need to belittle others who are engaged in a harmless discussion?
My impression about individuals who engage in these actions are that they seem
to be as curious as everyone else about the subject, but in order to “save face”
and “appease” others who think as they do, they opt to engage in a ridicule
campaign of sorts.
What are your thoughts governing this issue?
Respectfully,
Richard
I don't think there is anything wrong with asking a person to rethink their position in a respectful manner. Often, I DO think that because of the internet we feel more comfortable being "blunt" when we MIGHT not be as blunt to a person's face. I know that I can fall into this trap, although, ha, in honesty I am getting more blunt in real life then ever before. Not sure if that's good or bad.
I DO know that I have chosen to limit my net conversations. I honestly get annoyed when net converations get flaming or belitting, and I have experienced this both from beleiver and non believer.
Asking people to think logically about their position is a good thing. However, the problem is as you suggested, sometimes, people will resort to belittling rather then discussing. As I said, it happens on both sides.
Why do we resort to belittling? My best guess is that we're human and we get bitchy and in bad pissy moods and well, the net is here. And sometimes we, myself included, forget that the people reading our posts have feelings.