by emilyblue 61 Replies latest social relationships
He told me he only had $250 in the bank, and he had to pay a $75 dinner bill. I told him I would repay him, and I also said that I would never financially hurt him and that I would have gladly paid the bill for all three of us had I been more self-aware. This is two weeks after I gave him a money order for $800 to declare his second bankruptcy.
he's going to be a leech and suck you dry. iow, this will not end well....
Your self esteem must be awfully low for you to believe that this bankrupt, jw, a$$hole is the best that you could ever do.
If you do choose to spend your life with this guy, be sure to get knocked up right away. It would be the ideal thing to do considering his financial success and most importantly
the wonderful, loving example he can instill into your children.
He's an ass...move quickly along and find a nice guy that will treat you with respect,...even if he has to carry your drunk ass out to the car.
lisa
Do you see yourself in one of these t-shirts in the near future, emilyblue?
Oh yes...I'm sure that the top management in his company are discussing his career at this very moment. They have been interviewing recent graduates from Harvard and Yale, but your boyfriends financial accumen combined with his obvious people skills have put him in the lead for a very important job. What better middle management candidate is there than a twice divorced, twice bankrupted dead broke control freak leech? Delusions of grandeur?
You are in love with an illusion...you are in love with what you want to believe he is despite all evidence to the contrary. In every area of his life, this guy is a poser. Is that what you really want in a man? A poser?
Love is blind. I think your being used in more ways than one. The longer you stay here, the more it will hurt when your eyes are opened.
This train wreck is as much fun to watch as someone picking off a scab.
Emilyblue, last I heard you had quit your job and you were planning to move down east to be closer to your family as you licked your wounds and got over him. I see you abandoned all that and went back to this loser control freak of a man. Forget all the JW stuff. He doesn't respect you as a human being. I don't think he respects anyone.
WHY IN THE HELL ARE YOU APOLOGIZING TO THIS MAN?
Tell me, at least, that you got your old job back.
Did you say 2ex wives? Wonder why they are ex wives? Now he wants to use you financially and use you and your own guilt to further control you. As long as YOU don't put up a tree, as long as You don't do this and that... what are you nuts? a glutton for punishment? You are young, run from this future life of misery with this self centered ass and find someone who is at least more normal than him. What exactly do you love about him? can you list these fine qualities? You have no ties to him right now, you will get over this loss and be better for it.
Give all your money to me instead. I'm much nicer!
But seriously, love isn't whining about a silly incident, or using you to get out of bankruptcy. Learn that now or waste many miserable years; your choice.
emilyblue, do you really want to be the third ex-wife?
This guy sounds like a loser, sort-of-jw or not..............
Run, emilyblue!
Blondie
