J.T.
Maybe I should start another thread rather than interrupt this one, but I'm getting ready to go out of town later and will be gone five days and won't have time to follow up with any replies. So, if Terry will indulge me for the moment, I'll give my reply to your answer.
God may be the wrong word. There has come to be almost a reflex reaction to the mention of God that stirs up a revulsion in the minds of rabid atheists. Maybe we need to redefine what creator means. It seems to be difficult for an atheist to get past the old vision of what He has been represented by in the past and still does to some people.
Creation happened...period, i.e. Space and Matter came to be. At some point there was ONLY a point. What it was and what its nature was, science cannot explain. But it was divine (super human..magnificent..god-like...unknowable). Big Bang! As matter coalesced, it evolved "intelligently".
Now, my problem with "the other side" (whatever that is) is this: I've read, studied, observed pictures real and simulated of the cosmos. I am not an astrophysicist, but I know enough to know that our universe is so dynamic and vast that our solar system with its huge sun is a tiny speck upon another tiny speck---barely a blip on the cosmos radar. In this vastness, our Earth is practically invisible. There are stars that we know of that are 100 times as massive as our sun and 10,000,000 times brighter. These are just the ones we know of.
The things our science doesn't know are so much more than what we do know. By turning a blind eye to the "creator" of this universe, we are cutting ourselves short. Is our creator an entity like us only invisible? No..I doubt that. But, supposedly, all matter including man is made of the same "stuff" as the universe. (How we know this for a 100% certainty is beyond me...our science is so small and incomplete, but nevertheless, "they" say...) If we are all made of the same stuff, then it stands to reason we contain within ourselves part of what GOD is...like DNA for a lack of a better analogy. We ARE His image. We ARE evolving intelligently toward SOMETHING.
If we throw away our father because of the puny vain attempts at religion to explain Him, then we are making a serious error in my judgement. Throw away the old concept of God...YES. Throw away religion with its narrow-minded doctrines...YES. But don't throw away GOD. As we evolve physically, socially, and spiritually, THERE WILL BE NEW DEFINITIONS.
IMO, atheists put way too much stock in physical science. And if you stand back and look how SMALL our science is, you've got to stay open to the fact that there is more to creation and its evolution than can be explained by our tiny scientific knowledge.
Maybe I'm just in a different ring altogther in this fight....either/or, neither/nor.