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sweetface2233

Who's that Thinking of Leaving? 'Cause she is hot!

She is cute, but dude, aren't you GAY???????

Hey, saywhat29, your post was really interesting. I think it's great that you did realise it before you got trapped in a marriage you didn't want, no doubt feeling more and more dirty and guilty for thinking things you shouldn't or even looking at things you felt you shouldn't. When there are children involved, too, it makes it even worse. I know what you mean about the browser history as well, one time an elder offered to fix my PC and he took the hard drive out of it under the pretense of 'wanting to save your files before i wiped it' and proceeded to have a root through everything I had ever looked at on the Internet, all the files, cookies, downloads, everything, and then he rang me and said we needed to chat about what he had seen. I felt abused and disgusted that he had rooted through such a personal part of my life. Yes, I had looked at lesbian websites, but that was part of discovering who I was, and that was NOT something I felt he should have been privvy to. Ha, I like the cats and dogs comment; I must say I'm not an animal lover by any means and the only pet I ever had myself was a goldfish, two of them, and they both died soon after I got them, so I think I will quite happily lead a pet-free life. I also don't wear dungarees, have a shaved head or wear nose-studs. Sorry to ruin your stereotypical 'lesbian ideals' !!!!!

faundy

Are YOU?

moshe

Two elders at least have seen me with my girlfriend and that's why the PO wants to see me. I need to know what I should do.

If the Captain of the French Foreign Legion sent word that you were to report to headquarters for a summary court martial what would you do? Ignore it of course- so why would you feel any need need to let some elders do the star chamber thing to you? They only have the power that you give to them.

saywhat29

Sweetface,

I ain't THAT gay. I'm like a Kinsey....4 or 5, meaning mostly gay. And in the summer time I'm a hardcore 3.6, LOL!. 'Gay' to me is more of an identity, like the right for people to be with people of the same sex... and besides when I dream i am in the arms of a guy instead of a girl.

Doen't mean I don't appreciate a nice figure or a nice set. Especially a nice a$$. You have that, guy or girl and I'll follow you anywhere.

Just sayin'. We all don't fit into categories AS easily. that's why my mom freaks out 'cause I *could...possibly be with a woman...for a little while... I guess...* ^shrugs^

And might I add, now that I'm on a better computer... you're Hot Too... c'mon and take a wild on the queer side. It'll be fun to look at other guys and have me comment on them with you while I'll massage your legs or something. Emphasis on the something.

Faudy,

Oh God, I remember when my mom tried to do that to me... who, luckily she wasn't as computer savy and a quick swipe of the History put me in the clear. I can't imagined where I'd be if she found the sites I was at...

And my 'gay' siter, stereotypes ring true for a reason. Of course no one fits them all... most people don't even see me and see gay and I can't dance or decorate your house... but play some madonna and I OWNs the dancefloor.... well as much as a non-dancing person can own the dance floor

So it is only a matter of time. I bet you'll start trying to help the environment or help end male supremacy and misogny. The 'Gay'... it just sneaks up on you like that, LOL!

faundy

I think I get your point... but part of the reason I want to talk to them is to show them how happy I am now. I was so down with myself all the time whilst still going to meetings. And I'm not ignorant or stubborn as a rule and I hate to ignore people. That's why I was wondering. Also, why now? What have they heard that made them contact me? My ex best mate who is the wife of an elder and a pioneer herself has my new number and she knows that I was living with a previous girlfriend but she never told the PO about that, nor has she passed on my new number to him, so I'm wondering whether she is letting me be, letting me live my life and realising in her own way that she wants me to be happy and not have to answer anyone's questions- it's as though she is supporting me but not doing it overtly, so as not to draw attention to herself. She has plenty of info on me that I have told her myself that could get me into 'trouble', and she has always kept it to herself and not told anyone.

saywhat29

Hmm... maybe this friend of yours somehow... relates to your situation of yours. And by helping you, she is helping herself!!!!1

SCANDALOUS!

sw- who believes everybody is a little queer here or there...

B_Deserter

It is obvious that the proper response here is to:

Get the email addresses of the elder in question
Sign him up for gay porn

sweetface2233

Especially a nice a$$. You have that, guy or girl and I'll follow you anywhere.

Come on, boy!

And might I add, now that I'm on a better computer... you're Hot Too... c'mon and take a wild on the queer side. It'll be fun to look at other guys and have me comment on them with you while I'll massage your legs or something. Emphasis on the something.

Why thank you, but can BFD join us? I'm already his fag hag.

Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

Hi. It's tough because no matter how you leave there will be repurcussions, just decide which ones you want to deal with. If you leave soft you will lose some of the people you love, if you leave hard and fast you will lose others. No matter what, in the end you will lose all of them--and they will lose you as well. How you do it may just postpone the obvious and inevitable.

If you're happy and you know it (clap your hands) and tell the planet.

The scripture applies to them in that they 'have no natural affection'.

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