Shunned by my SIL the B........

by AK - Jeff 36 Replies latest jw experiences

  • Es
    Es

    I hear you I really do. Its like today I will be shunned at my nans funeral (only by my folks) for leaving the borg, my brother who may be there, who got his fiance pregnant before they got married and had an abortion, and then got married in the hall, will be treated better than I.

    It suxs big time and its unfair.

    es

  • LongHairGal
    LongHairGal

    AKJeff,

    Sorry to hear this but what can you expect from hypocrites? Defectors and whistleblowers are always hated.

    It was my observation that the ones who were disfellowshipped and reinstated felt they had 'something to prove' - even more so than the others there. They have to show to the world how 'theocratic' they are. So, they get 'points' by shunning you. Pathetic.

    But, what really gets me is how they feel they can do anything and be forgiven. Many of them are just whitewashed graves deceiving themselves.

    LHG

  • AWAKE&WATCHING
    AWAKE&WATCHING

    ((((AKJEFF))))

  • Open mind
    Open mind

    Chinese place huh? Do you think she'd notice if you accidentally added a little something to her Kung Pao Chicken?

    Not actually suggesting something like this.

    Just sayin'.

    Take care Jeff. Go hit a bucket of balls at the range.

    Open Mind

  • mind my own
    mind my own

    I'm sorry your hurt over her actions Jeff.

    Just know, she will get hers one day. She can sit there all high and mighty now, but there will come a time...you wait and see. She may be acting a certain way, but inside she knows the truth of the matter and how it really is. She is probably bothered inside that you had the b@lls to get out and she doesn't...weak.

    Hang in there, I feel your pain!

    MMO

  • Billzfan23
    Billzfan23
    IT JUST PISSES ME OFF THAT IN SPITE OF HER VAST ARRAY OF SINFUL CONDUCT IN THE PAST, THAT SOMEHOW SHE FEELS JUSTIFIED IN SHUNNING ME. My sin? Leaving her cult - that's all.

    In their eyes - that's the only sin that is unforgiveable if you don't go back. They would rather you be two faced or live a double life as a "weak" person rather than be out of the organization completely.

  • AK - Jeff
    AK - Jeff

    So true Billzfan.

    Hey if your screenname is correct - will they do anything this year?

    Jeff

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