Please less thread hi-jacking. Just was looking for refutation links. Not Bible bashing.
You're the one who's holding up the Bible as the ultimate authority, and looking for ways to get around the moral stipulations it imposes in your life. If you're gay and you aren't willing to de-gay yourself, then that means dealing with the judgements and pronouncements that the Bible says you deserve for being gay.
Have you ever considered the possibility that your roadmap isn't going to get you where you think you want to go?