STOP THE MADNESS....where is this board going?

by SnakesInTheTower 92 Replies latest jw friends

  • BluesBrother
    BluesBrother

    I was only wondering to myself yesterday - If a terrible illness were to befall my wife would I be able to seek solace and comfort from the board, right now? Would they believe me ?

    I like to think that I could still post up a personal trauma and be treated with compassion ..I know the adage that we "Won't get fooled again" but humanity has to champion over cynicism or , what have we become??

    As for the board, I too regret the loss of some of the old heavyweight posters who laid down the wonderful stuff that helped so many of us when we joined , but the best is still here - newbies can check out Lady Lee's "Best of " threads although regular posters may not see so many new doctrinal essays coming on ..

    These things are cyclical. I used to read of posters harking back to people and events that were before my time, now I am an old timer and can look back nostalgically.....but Life goes on ,,the board is needed more than ever by lurkers and doubters and kids growing up in the Borg.

    The way to improve it is to improve the quality of your own threads and posts , and allow the fluff to die away unanswered

  • Gretchen956
    Gretchen956

    I don't fit into the cliques either. Luckily I've been marching to my own drummer for most of my life. I too am attacked for being "sensitive" occassionally. I for sure don't read threads from people that have done so, and I tend to stay off certain topics as well.

    I have noticed the board has changed a bit in the last few weeks with regards to topics. I, however, usually get a kick out of the sex threads. I think partially its because it was such a taboo subject before and we find we can talk about it, laugh about it, even discuss it, and guess what? NOT A LIGHTENING BOLT IN SIGHT!

    Carry on, lol.

    Sherry

  • changeling
    changeling

    Sherry: your avatar belongs on a sex thread! Or am I seeing things? LOL

    changeling

  • Gretchen956
    Gretchen956

    Changeling, what are you seeing? Its a lotus flower with the goddess in each petal. Anything more than that I don't see. Perhaps because its such a small size.

    Sherry

  • stillajwexelder
    stillajwexelder

    thanks -no I did not miss anything then

  • changeling
    changeling

    Flowers are very sexual. They wear their "naughty" parts out in the open in a "come hither" stance to attract birds and bees. Quite lovely really.

    changeling

  • memario
    memario

    Snakes - I don't post much myself. I like to read now. I haven't been a strong reader in the past. But meeting you and the people at the fests are a great way to put names to faces and it give you a great feeling that "hey your not alone". It took me 2 years to realize that BB felt the way she did and with alittle seed of doubt caused me to start lurking and here I am! The board has been a great help

    THANKS EVERYONE!

    mem

  • Wasanelder Once
    Wasanelder Once

    I don't post much, nor are they ever full of any great pith. I like to read and comment on those experiences that involve self realization and breaking free from the JW mindset. Often those are the newbies. The rest I just browse and move on. Cliques? Don't really notice it, it's part of life that some gravitate more towards certain others, no crime here. I'm glad the board keeps going. The T's and D's will come and go, while the rest of us keep moving forward. When someone disappears from the board without an announcement, I see it as a good sign of moving on to a healthy post JW life. It's a process, no? W.Once

  • oompa
    oompa
    Snakes: My reason for the post was hoping to draw out some of the vets esp who can give me some perspective since I have only actively posted less than a year

    Now that the search feature works, and because everyones post history is so easily accessable, I enjoy going back in time and reading about those "vets" or maybe not so old, that have already posted their story....lots to learn there. To me there is almost no Bad stuff on this site. Maybe I just skip on what some consder "controversy." There are so many caring people here, and what a common bond. Who else could understand us? I agree with REDDOT that this place is pretty well rounded. Oh, and as far as Cliques go...join in more and then you will be in the Clique!!!!........oompa

  • Sirona
    Sirona

    Been here since 2001. I'd like to add that I've been to lots of fests and lots of people have met me so I am "real"! Also, Diamondblue1974 is real because he is my partner.

    The board goes through phases, just like we do in life. I'm only just back after a long absence - I've only just got internet sorted again at home for one thing.

    Don't stress about it. Just don't give out personal info that would identify you but other than that - get involved! If you want to attend a fest, do so, they're well worth it.

    Sirona

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