i am the first born,,my sister came 18 months later
my mother worked full time and my 'job' was to take care of my sister,,which meant bossing her,,dont go there,,dont touch that,,,,etc
well it wasnt until i was almost 40 i found out she was very upset with my bossing her around, just recently figuired it out,,i was only doing what mom said,,it was my job lol
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