shunned

by lovelylissa 47 Replies latest jw friends

  • Rosalee
    Rosalee

    Oh Sankes ... so good to see you back and all cooled off.

    And when you say GTFA ...

    I say 'No".

  • momzcrazy
    momzcrazy

    What if we all say GTFA?

    Shouldn't you be getting ready for or already be at meeting?

    This is a place for support and information. You provide neither, why are you here?

    momzcrazy

  • LoverOfTruth
    LoverOfTruth
    i do feel a bit crap when he takes our children over their for dinner and i am not invited, i feel we should be treated the same as one family unit

    I'm surprised he isn't sticking by you. If they can't invite you, why would he go?

  • Quandry
    Quandry

    Lovelylissa

    Welcome to the board. You will find people here that understand. Did the same elders that df'd you talk to your husband or try to? What was their reason for you being df'd and not him?

    Do not pay any mind to Rosalee. She said:

    He must have been repentant and you weren't ... just a guess.

    Yes, it was a guess, as she could not possibly know but that does not stop her from making snap self-righteous judgements of others. She cannot see the rafter in her own eye......

    She just wishes to rub salt into wounds of posters here. Somehow it must make her feel better about herself. I am thinking that most of the time she is guilt ridden.......

  • Quandry
    Quandry

    Well, Snakes, it seems that Rosalie has called it a night. She cuts and runs. That is, she cuts people down, then runs from answering any meaningful question.

    But Lissa, come back........we want you here..........

  • Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit
    Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

    Just proof that their rules are man-made and they are not being led by God or Holy spirit or holy anything. You both committed the same act, but their DF rule means you are mistreated.

    I hate them. Good luck to you. Welcome!! Please stay in touch through this site.

  • Merry Magdalene
    Merry Magdalene

    Welcome, 'lissa

    (Please ignore those who come here only to practice something almost entirely but not quite completely unlike compassion and clear thinking.)

    ~Merry

  • brinjen
    brinjen

    Welcome lovelylissa!

    I'm very sorry you are being treated this way, they have no right to treat you this way at all. So much for "unconditional love" hey?

    Please don't let the minority on here scare you off, we're really a nice bunch. As said before, this poster always defends the witlesses, the rest of us are here to help.

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