stillajwexelder: very revisonist of unpleasant facts for Islam - you belive what you want to
And you believe the facts of this matter are what? and why?
Hi Qcmbr.
I actually believe that the evidence of approval for wife-beating in Islam is completely out-weighed by the evidence against it. Unfortunately, there are too many men of greater influence than I have that disagree. With or without seeming religious approval, those who are so inclined will do it, and those who are not won't IMO. But those who do it need to face legal consequences, and I think those who teach that it's ok should have to too. Abusing is wrong and encouraging or approving abuse is wrong.
Even in the wondrous West this issue was for too long considered just a private family matter, not a legal one. If a man beat his wife, his kids or his dog no one was supposed to interfere.When my JW mom first moved to the area in which I was raised, she was shocked to find more than one woman on more than one occasion, in one town in particular, answer the door with black eyes and other visible bruising. Thinking at first that some dreadful accident had occurred, she asked the first one what happened, and the answer was a tired and rather nonchalant, "Oh, my husband came home drunk last night and..." Same basic answer every time.
And polygamy... It appears to me that although allowed (some say for the protection and benefit of women who outnumber men) it is not actively encouraged and only a small minority of Muslims have more than one wife. Thanks for the chuckle, Q.
~Merry