by changeling 75 Replies latest jw friends
The "lady" in question is in her 60's and very "grandmotherly". The doctor is actually a minister in some church, though he's never discussed religion with me. And again, this is the "Bible Belt South"...
As unprofessional as it was, I would not want to jeopardize this woman's job. Also, in this area, it is I who would look like a lunatic if I made a fuss.
changeling
so she believes in hell because somebody wrote a book about it?
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
wonder if I wrote a book about phlebotomists giving me all their money I'd get rich?
Two topics are not discussed with people I treat, religion and politics. Having a health provider bring up religion in any context is un-professional and a violations of boundries. I agree with the above posters to report it and make it clear that you will go elswhere if it does not stop.
After all I have had clients drop me because I am not a "believer". What's good for the goose..................
Hey Andre, what part of the state are you in? I live in the Bay Area, and I am free of this sort of thing. As a matter of fact, I live in Silicon Valley, and I believe christianity is definitely in the minority here. Jews, Muslims, Hindus, Buddhists, and Atheists don't seem to be as anxious to preach...........
you shoulda said........ well ill see you there then......... lol
if shes that big of a crack pot you should offer her a home bible study lol she would make a GREAT mindless dub
The Myers/Briggs/David Keirsey folks identify four primary temperaments of humankind. One of them is called "The Guardian."
Guardians are observant and cooperative. Protectors, Inspectors , Supervisors , and Providers are the role variants contained within this category. Guardians seek membership or belonging and are concerned with responsibility and duty. Their greatest strength is logistical intelligence. They excel at organizing, facilitating, checking, and supporting.
There are plenty of good things to say about Guardians. But what they have in common is a placing of "the good of the group" above all else. They therefore gravitate toward involvement in things that they believe will support the group (family, community, etc.) You'll see them heavily involved in school PTAs, housing associations, and--yes--churches. Indeed they are typically busy in the service of others, but also have a preoccupation with reminding others of how things are "supposed to be." Anyone can be involved in a fundamentalist religion, but you'd better believe that (for centuries) it's the Guardians who've been creating the legalistic, authoritarian structure within which they operate.
These people think it's their job to dutifully remind you of your obligation to do what's right. Further, "what's right" is what they have become convinced is right. Anything else is either a misunderstanding or a demonic influence that profoundly affects their very bowels. Trying to explain to them that their way isn't the only way seems to upset their sensibilities, since they are not happy unless everyone is performing their rightful tasks, respecting authority, working together toward the same purpose.
Please don't tell us that you would not feel bad if this person incorrectly prescribed or administered something due to her belief that would cause harm.
Changeling,
Choose a writing or publication that speaks to your "beliefs" and next time you go, very sweetly hand it to her and
say, "Last time I was here, you recommended I read a book that touched you, so I did. Here's one that speaks to my way
of thinking. I think you will find it interesting, if not, mind opening. Next time I come, I'd like to hear what you thought of it."
I AM GOD ... let's see ... <<flipping pages>>>> umm, well.
Genius has it`s limits...Stupidity is boundless..................
...OUTLAW
