MOMZCRAZY- Hey sis, Mr. Flipper here . Sorry to hear the elders are dragging this out for you. It has been my experience that the elders are very inept and dysfunctional , at best when dealing with many situations. In the fall September of 2006 ,my ex-wife tried with my daughter to spy on me and Mrs. Flipper a month before marrying to catch us doing the " dirty " deed. Elders called me over 2 months later claiming allegations of " circumstantial " fornication. I denied it, said I would not meet with them , nothing to meet about, wife and I married in October 2006. Did not hear anything until 4 months later in March 2007 ! I got a phone call saying the elders had formed a judicial commmittee to meet about my denied allegations. Once again I said I would not meet with them as there was nothing to meet about .Told them to stop harassing me or I'd get a restraining order. Then in early May 2 elders came to my door saying they were disfellowshipping me for " circumstantial fornication". So I fought the false allegations- had an appeal juducial meeting on the DFing decision , and the society overturned the disfellowshipping in June of 2007. So these bastards sucked 9 to 10 months out of my life, just to declare me innocent in the end. Believe me, these a$$holes are truly not qualified to do anything. Don't let them waste your life or cause you stress .
They caused me so much stress I had to go on blood pressure medicine for the last year and few months . They will literally suck the life out of you if you permit it. Only reason I fought it- was so I could still talk with my witness parents 82 and 80. If it was not for that, I would have let it go. Peace out, hang in there MOMZ ! Mr. Flipper