by B_Deserter 39 Replies latest jw friends
Ah, so you're hoping to "save" her from some sort of imagined situation where she is engaged to a guy she doesn't love. Right. That's not delusional.
This isn't about "saving" anyone. If she says no, it's end of story. Why do you people keep insisting on talking like she has no choice in the matter?
... or in a year or two when the next "hero" comes along and she dumps HIM because she found a new one.
THAT WOULD BE TO SWEET.....
THAT WOULD BE TO SWEET.....
So, that girl that dumped you for another guy and married him...did that happen?
You know what? Do it. If she says yes, you'll never trust her, I suppose that will be payback enough, hehe.
Why do you people keep insisting on talking like she has no choice in the matter?
She made a choice to become engaged to someone else and you somehow seem she made the wrong choice GO FOR IT BRO make her see the light YOU WANT HER MORE THAN THE POOR SHLOOP and you will PROVE YOUR NEVERENDING LOVE forever RIGHT...Try thinking with out your D*** for once in your life and BEGIN TO CONSIDER 'HONOR'...OH I'm so sorry I'm sure your parents never mentioned that HORRIBLE word to you in your life...
I take leave of this thread. Zeroday is more than welcome to keep feeling sorry for himself and posting about what a horrible person I am
I take leave of this thread. Zeroday is more than welcome to keep feeling sorry for himself and posting about what a horrible person I am
You're not really horrible D just someone that can not think without looking into his PANTS....
Deserter,
I gave you 3 reasons/questions to think about that were directly related to whether the relationship was truly viable or worth pursuing, but the only thing you addressed was my question about martial arts that was unrelated to the woman.
What are your thoughts about the other three things that are actually relevant to your problem?
By the way, I agree with your assessment that the woman has a choice here. She is not a prized possession to be fought over and won!
Cog
cog, I'd rather let this go. I'm tired and not thinking straight. I didn't even get the situation right. She's not engaged, she's dating, expecting to be engaged. I don't know why I screwed that up, but I did, so take that as it is. As far as signals go, I think she was sending them, but I didn't reciprocate. She may have just settled for this guy, or not, who knows. When we talk it's always for hours and she's ALWAYS complaining about him, too. That's as much as I can remember or think about tonight. I might revisit this tomorrow.
Hey, no problem. Sounds like there could actually be something there, if she is confiding her problems in you. That's a good sign. If they are only dating then go ahead and ask her out. I would still really worry about the JW thing though. Bottom line, vastly different beliefs = difficult relationship.
Yeah, get a good night's sleep, you can't solve it all in one night. Gotta be able to focus to make good decisions.
Cog
