FemaleThinking?

by R.Crusoe 99 Replies latest jw friends

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  frankiespeakin

  Hey,

  I'm actually glad women think different than men, with all kinds of shades or variation. I love to watch the love mothers show for thier children with that special bond that only a mother can feel, and I can only imagine,, sure they get on your nerves sometimes,, because they see things from a different perspective, but what can we do without them, we need them,,it is a trade off, sometimes the sex is so good, we easily put up with these differences, and as that starts to wear off a little, some of these differences we once thought favorably of, become major or minor annoyances. O my what to do???

  Anyway how many women would like to be like the foxes discribed in this uncencored version, just playfully asking:

  Don't Cha:

  http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=7983802176517666937&q=The+Pussycat+Dolls+-+Don%27t+Cha+%28Uncensored%29&total=9&start=0&num=10&so=0&type=search&plindex=0
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  cognizant dissident

  Anyway how many women would like to be like the foxes discribed in this uncencored version

  What do you mean "would like to be?" Maybe we already are!
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  frankiespeakin

  CD,

  Good on ya! the song kinda brings out fox, don't cha, don't cha.
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  JWdaughter

  I think about sex a lot more than my husband. Is that the question anymore? I only WISH he thought with things in the vicinity of his zipper. Ever. I just gave up. Too humiliating otherwise.
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  R.Crusoe

  JWdaughter - that is a sad outcome! That makes me wonder whether his mind is interested in your mind! My feeling is each should know each other well enough to be in tune with each others 'whole life experience' otherwise your just existing within an unhappy cage with someone whose just an observer! Too many people don't match each other or have ever been given the opportunities to explore enough to find ones who do IMHO!

  Apart from challenging your own humiliation and saying directly to him how you feel I don't know how to advise you!

  There is this reluctance to say how we feel to those we feel should know better that sometimes causes problems to grow! But after having shared your feeling with a non-empath type presona too many times already it gets to a stage where sometimes the writing is on the wall - not much to add! If you know that he knows how you feel for sure then still doesn't involve himself then maybe you should just say you don't feel loved and that he finds you sexy!! If he's interested in truth maybe he should spend some time in your ministry!

  I hope you work something out!
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  frankiespeakin

  JWD,

  I feel for ya,,that's why I'm for open relationships, for why should one mate be chained to suffer with the others lack of interest in sex, seems kind of selfish to even think that the other would even deny them that pleasure in life, just because they didn't want it. See my logic?

  I know of a women(formerly a lady of the evening, then married) who actually held a gun to hers husbands head to get laid by him,, now that is really sad, or (exciting depending on one's kinkyness and S&M leanings).
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  frankiespeakin

  Anyway all this talk about sex, and I just got a call from one on my GFs that she comming over tonight and me and her have a nice habit of getting very busy for hours, she need to get all unwound if you know what I mean. So God Bless all you women and your womenly thoughts and feelings Amen! Or should I be saying O GOD, O GOD, O GOD!
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  GoddessRachel

  Lou Belle your generalization doesn't work. Have you met "most" women? No, you haven't. Have you talked to "most" women so as to know how they think? No, you haven't. There are close to 4 billion women in this world. How many of them do you personally know? Your generalizations mean nothing!

  Cog (pong)

  Well put, Cog, I just want to say I have always enjoyed your posts. Your logic is so good. This thread took a weird turn. It seems now we are just talking about sex. I think frankiespeakin's point is that he will always "put up" with women's quirkiness all because of the sex. The feminist in me says, what are we, pieces of meat? And though I like freakiness, I think the song Don't Cha is ridiculous: it's about women tearing other women apart, trying to take their men, not respecting relationships. What an AWESOME song (Not). Rachel
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  R.Crusoe

  That's funny a woman saying they don't like being treated like a piece of meat after they always say to men if his piece o meat can make the scale hit a pound! Very cute!
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  frankiespeakin

  Godhoney,

  The feminist in me says, what are we, pieces of meat? And though I like freakiness,

  I like the freakiness part, but the "peice meat" part I think is a gross over simplification designed to create hostility over the natural sexual attraction found in males for females, and has been responcible for many men&women not get any. So you see my point from my point of view?

  I think the song Don't Cha is ridiculous: it's about women tearing other women apart, trying to take their men, not respecting relationships. What an AWESOME song (Not). Rachel

  Forget about the women tearing part other women, and just turn up the bass&volume close your eyes and picture yourself as the foxy women part and using all your sexiness to win your man prize. I think you will like it much better. Miss Freaky.