Throughout the history of man, woman has had very little say in how things are run. That is a troublesome fact of life, and I see no exception to this in Israel. It bears out the truthfulness of YHWH's statement to Eve that the man would dominate her. Take a look around and you will see the pathetic truthfulness of YHWH's prediction.
I don't mean this as a personal attack on you, Snowbird, or your faith. Currently, I'm going through my own speaking out against the injustices of the JWs and the Bible. The faith I'd defended has proven to me unworthy of my efforts. So, I'm overdue to speak up for what I've read and questioned in the Bible.
Actually, in Ancient Egyptian records, women had most of the same legal rights as men. Inheritance, divorce, property rights, women Pharoahs and business leaders, and remember the authority of Potiphar's wife. Here's a couple short examples or women's rights in Ancient Egypt in wikipedia:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Legal_rights_of_women_in_history#Egyptian_law see subheading Legal System
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ancient_Egypt#Government_and_economy
As a man, the Mosaic Law sounds pretty awesome. Find the hottest babe, rape her, and she's yours! Woo hoo! What's even better, polygamy is allowed so rape every hottie you can afford (pay her dad and kill a ram)! SCORE!!! Plus, Join the Army, get your choice of young virgins FREE!!! Thank you Jehovah! Is it any wonder that in Israel every girl and her family would try to get her engaged ASAP before she got raped?
Read Judges chapter 21 for a sick example of justice in Ancient Israel. In conclusion, Judges 21:25 "25 In those days there was no king in Israel. What was right in his own eyes was what each one was accustomed to do."
Of Ancient Egypt, wikipedia says, "Though no legal codes from ancient Egypt survive, the many extant court documents of the period show that Egyptian law was based on a common-sense view of right and wrong that emphasized reaching agreements and resolving conflicts rather than strictly adhering to a complicated set of statutes."
No wonder the Israelites were eager to go back to Egypt, kept reverting to Egyptian calf worship, and wanted a powerful Pharoah-like ruler. Sounds like they needed more common-sense and fewer law-reading-sheep-burning-priests.